Hello everyone, I am new here, I have been previously just lurking here from time to time, so I would like to take this opportunity to introduce myself a bit. I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 years and shared my desires related to chastity and bdsm about a year ago. I tried to check for her reactions and then surprised her with a key to my chastity belt as a present for her birthday. She was a bit shocked at first but I could tell she wasn't put off. She wanted me to wear the belt occasionally for a day or two and I could tell she started to like it more and more. From then on, I tried to be a bit slower and careful when sharing my fantasies so that I know I am not forcing anything upon her. When we started dating, she was very sexually shy and I always tried to satisfy her and bring out her own fantasies. Well and with me locked, she seemed to me like she was becoming more confident and enjoying being dominant in bed more and more. Long story short... We talked about chastity a lot, she wanted me to show her some tumblr blogs about FLR and chastity. And then very quickly, I found myself locked for a total amount of 23 days (19 left as of now). Be careful what you wish for they say, don't they? But I may be the happiest I have ever been in a relationship. My girlfriend is becoming ever more confident, she says she is the happiest girl in the world. I could see how me licking her to an orgasm at minimum 4 times a week could contribute to that Well, chastity is great, but I am wondering how I will feel about it in 3 weeks. I have never yet been locked for so long. And what will come after? I don't know. All that I know is that I love my Princess like a crazy person. P.S: She is not on this site yet but I am thinking about telling her about it eventually... Don't want to rush her into it again though. Is there a community of ladies whom she could meet here?
Might have been a better idea to post this in The Foyer, sorry. I intend to write a journal of how I am progressing through my current chastity sentence and further, so maybe it's not all that bad... *herp derp I'm new here and write before I think*
That's awesome that things are going so well for you. The 3 weeks will be fun and I promise that you will be a little sad when the 3 weeks end, but you will get to do it all over again.
Good morning and welcome to the Mansion. It's great to hear things are going so well for you and your girlfriend. If you do speak to her about joining the site, please do let me know when she does and I shall get in touch to welcome her. Good luck with the three weeks.
As I said I would like to use this thread as a sort of a diary, I would like to share my feelings after about 8 days in chastity. My Princess had to leave for the weekend and left me all alone at home. I watched some chastity/femdom porn while locked and thought a lot about my gf, which got me even more horny than I would normally be. I wonder if she would be mad about me worsening my chastity period by making myself even hornier or whether she would be pleased... Today I also washed all of the underwear she had in my place in hand and sent my Princess a picture - she is very pleased and looking forward to me massaging and pleasuring her. I want to die a little bit on the inside - which could translate into "I want to serve her, lick her for as long as she desires and then get a good night kiss and blue balls". 15 days and 9 hours left!
Thank you for this offer! I will probably give her a bit more time, but will eventually tell her to check this site out.
It sounds you two are having the most wonderful time together and that is awsome! And i agree completely with your Title I also feel happy by making others happy
I am used to being away from my wife, working in foreign or domestic cities for a few months a year. I have my own bedroom decorated in a manly fashion while hers is definitely feminine. Both of us have learned not to depend on only each other for our happiness. My wife had her girlfriend when I was away and I kept myself busy working. Of course life was better when we were together but we control our feelings when apart. My wife has a dog that suffers from severe separation anxiety. He cries and howls when she is away. His behavior limits how often she leaves him alone and I did not want to do the same. My wife used to tell me that I was too clingy because my happiness was solely dependent on her and that is not a good thing to make anyone feel. Always remember that he who waits also serves. Good luck.
Thanks for this note, it is definitely useful to keep in mind. As chastity is still quite new in our relationship, we make all sorts of mistakes - especially me. I sometimes find it hard to keep calm and to have a clear mind when I am too aroused, leading to me being too demanding (although I shouldn't have many demands in this sort of a relationship, should I), too dependent, impatient or whiny. I hate when I behave in such a way. I don't feel like anyone should behave in such a way in a healthy relationship, but what can a person do when he/she is completely desperate? It's hard to keep everything in perspective. So I appreciate all of this kind of input from more experienced people, so that I can be cautious of such behaviour.
So anyway, yesterday after I served my Princess in all the ways a princess deserves, she wanted to play a bit with me and unlocked me. After a certain time I was begging for her to let me orgasm, but she had me repeat that I am not allowed to. In the end, she made it clear that she wanted to ruin my orgasm and did so. I am conflicted about ruined orgasms - but I guess that's how it's meant to be. I felt so much pleasure coming in my way and then felt none - and it was over and it was time to sleep. I cannot say I was happy about it, but whatever she wants, right? What surprised me is that I am not sure whether I would like it more for her to deny my completely or give me this unsatisfying release, but it probably doesn't matter much what I think about it. Anyway, I was locked again and have at least 14 more days until I am allowed a full orgasm.