I have just been visited by my wife's chosen hairdresser. We have a key code pad for the door so the care workers can just come and go. My wife gives the code out to anyone that needs it. She didn't tell me she had made the appointment but no worries. I got in my wheelchair and she put a drape over me. I said shave up the back with a number three and just trim up top and front. She said I have strict instructions from your wife which are as much as I can get off the back and sides with a number one and trim the rest to blend in. A bit humiliating to be honest and the most short ever but it's ok. My wife had pre paid too. I felt like a little boy again.
For over a decade now I have had long hair, Normally in a pony tail, about 6 years a go my madam complained that it was to long, and I’m bad condition, I didn’t really pay attention, then one night she had me with my hands cuffed behind my back for some ball busting, she walked behind me and opened a draw on the desk, I just felt a slight pulling and heard the sound of sissors. She then dropped 8 inches of my pony tail in front of me, and just said, I told you it was to long!
My wife wants me to keep long hair, she feel I am an elf like this and as am part sissy and feminize it suits me well. One of her favorite play is to play with my hair and to style me. One time I get so feminine that I have been harrassed in a train station by a man that really think I was a girl...
Mh KH has decided my hair is in poor condition and I am getting it trimmed and styled and maybe dyed next month. For me this is a little different as I suffer with severe social and people anxiety which often prevents me leaving my house but it makes it easier knowing I am doing this for my KH and bending to their will. I find myself both looking forward to and scared of my impending hair cut (especially as my hair is precious to me being a mtf trans girl and worrying about passing).
Don't feel bad . I have to my hair trimmed to a number 2 cut at all times. At least she is not shaving my head.
If I had a partner who just decided to cut my hair because they didn't like it, I'd have to end the relationship right there on the spot. I can see why others might not make a big deal out of it, but that is truly absolutely a hard limit and every single person who I'd consider a friend absolutely knows that my hair is important to me.
When I first retired Mistress said let it grow and for a few Years I did with a ponytail, W/we have always used Her Hairdresser one-day last year She had him cut it all off and When We got home She had bought three wigs for me to wear when dressed.
i go to the hair dresser like everyone my hair are cut as my Queen desires (the same as mine) one more time this morning the hair dresser (a lady) touched twice the collar but no question (she didn't see it in totality)
It's a less perminant marker of control in an FLR relationship than getting a tattoo I suppose it depends how much you want to please your significant other. I think I would get punished for saying somthing that was painless, temporary and vanilla Was a hard limit. But each to our own
My hair is the single most important thing to me. It defines me. And while sure, when I'm in a relationship it changes and my partner becomes the most important thing... there's some things they have to understand about who I am fundamentally that if they don't like simply mean the relationship will not work. They are not things I will change. And my hair is one of them.
My Wife has cut my hair for over 30 years of our 39 years. That includes my head and body. During our first decade she complained about my gorilla body hair, I just told her one day as she worked on head, " if you want trim my body hair like you want it". She went to work with the trimer set to minimum. I looked really bare when done. She had started on my back I found out how short when she ran up the middle of my chest between my breasts. " That's what you want?" " Yes, don't worry it will grow back " figured to let her have her way. She still cuts my head hair but now just cuts my back areas I can't manage then I do the rest. This process starts when she tells me " its hair cut time" I set up and cut everything on my body I can reach. She then inspects my work and approves or has me redo it. She then trims my unreachable and head. Generally my body hair rarely reaches 1/8" . Currently it slightly longer due to her being busy over Holidays. She told me today it will be cut soon as I get back from business trip this week. I don't go to the beach at least public anymore. My dermatologist likes it she finds it easier for full body exams. I started last year going to my Wife's doctor after she arranged the exception. That started with my physical late last year. Hair is becoming the last thing I worry about.