I never can predict what my wife is going to do next. Last night I went to bed, my wife comes in the room and tosses me the key to my cage and tells me to take it off. I was a little confused but excited, Im thinking YEAH going to be getting a little piv. Oh no, Im lying naked in bed, she's fully clothed she tells me I have ten minutes to jack off and I better tell her when I'm about to cum. Im like "what"? She shows me her phone with a count down timer counting down,. "Your wasting time". I start frantically stroking my cock, but heck it takes me like 5 minutes just to get my dick hard, the whole time she is telling me I better hurry up its going to be a long time before you have this opportunity again, stroke that little dick etc... At this point I'm frantically stroking my dick, but I'm having performance anxiety because she's putting me under so much pressure. She knows what buttons to push. I finally tell her I'm about to cum with literally 10 seconds to go, she grabs my dick and places her thumb over the head and ruins my orgasm, I didn't even know she knew what that was. I was then told to lick up all my cum and put that cage back on. That is one of the hardest things to do after an orgasm, ruined or not, putting that cage back on. I'm starting to see a sadistic side of my wife I never knew existed.
Similarly, this morning, after I was sure I wasn't even coming out for a stretch she took me to the edge and when I said I was about to come she just kept going then pinched it off hard... Kinda frustrating at the time, but the more I've thought about it through the day, the more I've appreciated it... Damn she surprises me sometimes.
Wow...I bet for the next couple of weeks you are in major anticipation every night at bedtime of what may happen next. Your wife is earning her Master's degree in delivering frustration!
Just a quick update on our situation since my last post. NOTHING. I asked my wife a little attention last night. She patted my cage and told me "your good." The flip side of the chastity kink, long lock ups with little attention.
Kinda similar here, about halfway through 45 days asked for a ruin something, anything this morning. She said tough doesn't house stuff need done. Went back to scrolling on her phone.
That is cruel. But come to expect it when women have the power. I was let out for 10 mins this afternoon and as you there was a verbal countdown. Needless to say I ended up frustrated and locked back up.
That was an issue we have / had -- If I'm locked and she doesn't want anything, she tends to forget that I still need some attention. She has asked why I want attention when I know I'm not getting out -- thinking it would be better to just not think about it and move on. But, at least for me, without some attention there's really no point.
Tell her that “Locked and forgotten” is the main cause of all failure in Chastity relationships. You need the attention as much as she does. The two literally go hand-in-hand. There is never Yin without Yang.
I'm definitely not locked and forgotten, we have had that conversation in the past, but as a locked husband in reality you can't expect to be teased every night. If I pushed for TD every night it would become a chore for her and she would quickly lose interest. I want her to enjoy this kink as much as me otherwise whats the point. My wife knows how long I can go and start to get really frustrated, she takes me there and pushes just a little more.
Same boat. Far from locked and forgotten but nightly tease long term is kinda unrealistic and easily become a chore. She doesn't believe in edging or really anything that let's me out of cage. That said I'm not neglected.
Truth is chasity is 90% mental after you're used to being caged long term. It seems many of us are used to attention when we get it, not on a daily basis. I'd think about any person over time would get tired of being the rock to lean on constantly. Especially when its something the other person asked for. Just seems unfair to burden her with my needs when this was my idea. Could very easily become a chore and not fun.
Finally an update worth posting. Last night my wife instructed me to go to the bedroom and remove my shorts, she brought out her leather flogger and whipped my ass good, its quite bruised this morning. Sbe told me I was being disiplined for not folding, and putting away the laundry . After the the whipping she instructed me to remove my cage, she told me she was in need of some sexytime. I was all excited but try as I might I wasnt able to get it up, she stroked my cock trying to help to no avail. Finally she told me to put my cage back on, she then took out her favorite vibrator and got herself off twice while I tried to help, she just told me sit and be quiet.