Hey all. Mistress Spike and I have been doing the chastity thing for a while now and usually the routine is: - every 3 or 4 days a ruined orgasm for me - mistress 2-3 orgasms a week - i usually get to have sex with her (penetration) 1-2 times a week but at most a ruined orgasm or nothing for me. But every 2 weeks or so she gives me a real orgasm. Of course it is extremely intense and i feel on cloud 9 after. But i do get a little lazy right after for a few hours. But the next day or 2 i am just a real bitch. Grumpy, whiney, no energy to please her. Basically the 'old disrespectful me'. Not nice for mistress, but i hate the feeling myself too. Usually she gets me out of it by paddling and gagging etc. But this morning mistress said she is considering not giving me a full orgasm ever again (so only ruined ones). I do understand why. I am just unpleasant to be with for a few days after. But giving up orgasms forever is scaring me! Does anybody have any tips I can try to not be such a bitch for the 2 days after orgasm? I am willing to try just about anything! Thank you!