Im a newbie to the forum and the BDSM lifestyle. Im the sub of an absolutely GORGEOUS DOM wife who is new as well. We both clearly see the benefits of the lifestyle and have decided to pick and choose and use what pleases her. We'll see exactly what that is over time but in the meantime, being the sub at heart I have discovered I am, I have taken on all chores around the home that she deems EVEN THOUGH she is a stay at home mom with few responsibilities outside of her being a part time personal trainer. Its been about 3 weeks and so far so good, nothing but bliss, happiness and of course intense sex...moreso for her than I. After getting approval from my Queen I ordered her THE book (female dominance - elise sutton) that should arrive tomorrow. The anticipation of what will follow after she reads a few chapters is occupying my every thought. The changes in our relationship might be HUGE or maybe not? Either way I know its about pleasing her and in all sincerity that all that matters to me. My queen is the loving nuturing type but who knows? once she tastes the power I feel I OWE her that might all change? Its her call 100% and I will accept and support WHATEVER she wants.