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    Happy Thanksgiving everyone.
    I'm brand new to being locked. My wife locked me up 8 days ago for cheating on her.(That's how I'm suppose to say it if asked why I'm locked up). Anyway she unlocked me for 5 hrs as a reward for being a good boy. We went and had dinner with family and came home.
    When we got home she went and got my cage and locked me back up. It was a nice 5 hrs but now it's back to the real world. She said she might let me back out for Christmas. She did say that tonight she wants me to pleasure her. No indication that I might be able to get any. Hope I do. Wish me luck.
     
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    Lucky she locked it up and didn't chop it off.
     
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    rebeccacd404 2018 is going to be a year of chastity and denial!

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    So may I ask the real reason for being locked up?
     
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    It was very generous of her to let you out. Make sure you really repay her later tonight
     
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    Mistress Lucy is very magnanimous! :)
     
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    I have a uncontrollable problem masturbating. That's why I have to say I was cheating on her. I was feeling very guilty about it. So I was looking online for a solution to stop this and came across male chastity. So 8 days ago I locked it on me. Handed my wife the keys and told her she could do whatever she wanted with them. Then I confessed everything to her. She was upset with me as she should be. She looked at the cage on my penis and told me to get use to that. So that's how and why I'm in chastity.
    Just to make things really clear. I love my wife very much and will do whatever it takes to make her happy. Neither one of us no very much about this, both are learning. Any advice on what to expect or anything else would be greatly appreciated.
    Thanks
     
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    I will believe me
     
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    Make sure to show her how thankful you were for those 5 hours of freedom today. Flowers (read long stemmed red roses) would be in order. Think of how much time and effort you dedicated to your masturbation habit when you could have focused that energy on your wife. You have a lot to make up for. The great news is that your marriage will be much stronger.
     
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    OMG!!! You are so right. This is totally suppose to be about her and how I need to focus more on her and not the predicament I'm in. I totally deserve this. I actually thought she would have forgiven me and let me out by now. The hurt I caused and mistrust seems to be running much deeper than my feeble little mind came comprehend. I have a lot of sincere work to do.
    Thank you for your bluntness, that's what I need people like you to really tell me the truth
    I know their are lots of people who like being locked up. I thought this would show my wife that I was truly sorry. Being locked is very hard for me, but I will endure this for as long as she wants it.
     
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    Don’t be so hard on yourself, you were jerking off and you’ve stumbled into a lifestyle that could really be fun for both you and your wife. I imagine your wife is enjoying the fact that you’re caged. Keep your lines of communication open to make sure you both get the most out of this. Also make sure you’re keeping everything clean under the cage. But with all that being said, I’d still make those flowers a priority tomorrow ;)
     
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    Thank you!!!!!
     
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    Thank you for being so honest....your masturbation problem is really quite common, in fact the reason I looked at this lifestyle. I am not really the most qualified person to give any advice as I am really new into this myself! Enjoy the ride, and the frustration......its not so bad. I think some of this lifestyle is based on control and respect and obedience, and your wife should have it all! She is special and your superior.
     
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    Like your wife, I don't approve of masturbation. I'm guessing she doesn't approve of pornography, either, which I don't. Like your wife, I use chastity to control BF masturbating. If I see on his computer that he's looked at pornography, I assume he's masturbated, so he pays the penalty. I also use spanking and humiliation to control him masturbating. He knows any time he wants sex, unless he's in chastity or under discipline, all he has to do is ask. If I'm not around, he can wait. If he can't control himself, I will control him until he learns to, which, it looks like will be never.
     
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    Very sound thinking. Porn warps and corrupts peoples notions about sex and relationships
     
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    That's what she is doing now. I confessed because of the guilt I was feeling. I love her too much to do this anymore. I don't do pornography it does nothing for me. I will remain in charity for as long as she wants me too.
     
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    After 12 days of being locked up, my wife has unlocked me. Just till the morning she said. I was getting sore so she is giving me one night off. Only thing is she is chaining my legs to the bed so I can't get up in the middle of the night and sneak out. I did service her tonight. Nice long massage with a happy ending for her not me. I love my wife
     
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    Congrats on getting out. I'm sure you'll behave and she'll be very proud of you.
     
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    How kind of your wife! I bet it felt wonderful just to get erect again.
     
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