I'm still waiting for my confirmation email, resent it a few times and haven't received it yet. But, I'm very happy that I'm able to introduce myself. My Wife (Domme) and I began chastity a few months ago, fairly casually at first. Panties followed as a reminder of her Dominance. We had been into swinging for years but so many couples wanted to be best friends and that wasn't for us. We like the people but sex is sex not movies and a campfire. So chastity is between us and evolves into our desires. We've also enjoyed pegging so the chastity added to that as well. The chastity errections annoyed me and her. So we decided an anti androgen herb would help, and it does. We both enjoy each other and sex far more as I become less "male" and my needs don't come first. We've both decided that me developing feminine features and behavior is and will make our life, in its entirety, much more fulfilling. I'll always be male outside the bedroom. However, between us and rare trips together in the right setting, I'll dress accordingly when I look more as we wish. I had taken a couple days off from my cage last week. I thought it didn't bother Domme. I was wrong, she had my cock pierced twice Saturday (dydoe piercings). I take an Androease daily and follow a feminizing diet. I've had results. Thank You in advance for welcoming me!! SubDave
A very warm welcome and looking forward to following your journey. Will your wife be joining the site too ?
Wow! SubDave, you are off to a quick start! I'm jealous. It has taken my Mistress over 5 years to slowly feminize me and She uses my feminine side as a means to control me more. My fem side is private between us, but I do underdress my male clothes with bra and panties when I leave the house. Please post often as we'd like to keep up with your progress!
Welcome. My wife and I are the opposite of you and yours. We only played with our very good and best friends. My wife and I, especially my wife, does not enjoy sex for sex sake. She is bi and prefers the type of sex she has with her girlfriends, which is what I would call prolonged and passionate love making. You do not get that with strangers. The best part of only playing with friends, aside form the emotional friendship connection is that you can have raw sex and make love depending on your mood. Two for the priced of one. I went through the panty stage and just about everything else since I am a fetishist and will try anything once just for the experience. In the end we have been monogamous for the last 7 years of our marriage and do pretty plain chastity play with tease and denial. At my age, extreme BDSM is not well suited to my physical condition anymore so chastity was a mild alternative that appealed to my masochism without the whips and lit cigarettes. Have fun and there is a great group of people here. Funny that when I think back on what I did in my past; cuckolding, wife sharing, group sex of all kinds, I cannot imagine doing them now. I guess at the age of 65 I matured or something. At one time watching my wife with another guy was exciting, now I would not want it. My wife would ask her girlfriends to have sex with me so she could watch, but now wants me all to herself after so many years sharing me with others. So our sexual tastes have changed over time. We did try all the chastity things we read or saw in porn but in the end, we play in the bedroom and live a normal live outside of it. It suits our current age, medical condition and sexual needs.