Good articles/books to send to my wife to get her more into chastity

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    #1 Saleko, Jun 19, 2022
    I've been trying to involve my wife into male chastity for about a year already.

    We've definitely got some traction in it, but the progress is super slow.

    I've recently bought this book for her and it looks like finally she got it, and things became much better now

    https://www.amazon.com/Chastity-Guide-Vanilla-Milyssa-Morrisette-ebook/dp/B094D1CQKN

    Do you know some other articles/books I can show her so that she could understand chastity better and understand the values of it for her?
     
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    #4 starflyer, Jun 20, 2022
    Some good reading there
     
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    #5 JaySaysYes, Jun 20, 2022
    https://web.archive.org/web/20210117100717/https://flrjoy.com/Chastity.html

    https://web.archive.org/web/20211103001330/http://www.realflr.com/level-2-chastity.html

    https://evolvingyourman.com/

    https://ezinearticles.com/?How-Long-Should-You-Keep-a-Man-in-Chastity-for-the-First-Time

    https://myboyinchastityblog.wordpress.com/2016/08/10/hornier-is-better/

    https://web.archive.org/web/2019111...Approach To Male Chastity - Sierra Parker.pdf

    https://www.malechastityjournal.com/caging-your-man/sex-and-enforced-chastity/

    https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/hormone.38934/

    https://happy-marriage.neocities.org/rules.htm

    https://locked-in-love.tumblr.com/post/629129931347165184/chastity-words-of-encouragement
     
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    #6 Andy88, Jun 20, 2022
    agreed with you. Go read this for you and her especially. Almost the most straightforward and concise manual / bible for male chastity. Or if she is not sold by the mere wordy contents.. she will be over the many couple pictures happily practising such lifestyle.. ok, they could be models.
     
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    #7 Giles_English, Jun 20, 2022
    Can I just sound a note of caution? Be careful not to crowd her or make her feel she has to do homework!
     
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    #9 collaredhubby, Jun 20, 2022
    Go check out Giles English’s blog page and books on that very subject.
     
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    #10 madams-sissysub, Jun 21, 2022
    I agree!
     
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    #12 IB-Chaste, Jun 23, 2022
    Just do you. Lock yourself up. Explain why you want to be… make it work in your relationship. I showed my wife a book (can’t actually remember which one) and it was only good in explaining to her that I wanted chastity. Everything else was drivel. Men will cheat. Tease this way. Take your power etc etc…
    Nothing that is written will explain better on your own level than how you are feeling. Lock it up, show her. Embarrassingly explain you don’t want to have control over it anymore
     
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    #14 Stephplayswithyou, Jun 24, 2022
    I'm hopeful this one helps my wife/KH a bit more. Just sent it to her yesterday asking she give it a read and discuss anything if she'd like. Hasn't been brought up yet but we'll see and remain hopeful
     
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    #15 JaySaysYes, Jun 25, 2022
    Careful what you wish for.
     
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    #16 Stephplayswithyou, Jun 25, 2022
    Very true, and said many times and possibly will be thinking why did I do this down the road, but its something I know I want to pursue.

    Anyways, not here to hijack the thread, but thanks for commenting.
     
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    #17 King Hippo, Jun 25, 2022

    There is a company called "Mature Metal" that is run by a family. I really enjoyed these podcast @mistressmaturemetal & her husband William was on in the past.

    https://www.spreaker.com/user/theflirtingfox/mature-metal

    https://monkeyinacage.com/podcast-episode-13-chatting-with-mature-metal/
     
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    #18 PawEee, Jul 3, 2022 at 9:47 PM
    Thank you a lot for this list. I would add
    „Male Chastity Play for Modern Lovers”
    © 2020 Richard and Colleen Alden
    It’s really written for „regular couples” as it’s promised in quotatation on the cover.
     
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    #19 tecolote, Jul 4, 2022 at 2:37 AM
    Yeah. There are a lot of worthwhile sites, but so far, for me, this one is the best thing for evolving from vanilla. I'm not convinced it was written by a female thought? Either way, it's a good starter.
     
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    #20 PawEee, Jul 4, 2022 at 9:45 AM
    Chastity has been really becoming popular in recent two years. And it evolved from a BDSM niche to something enhancing intimacy and sex for every mature couple. It’s a radical change obvious from rise in publications, offer of different cages and accessorie like jevelry hiding keys on necklace’s or even beautiful silver keys as tiny earrings.
     
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    #21 christoph, Jul 6, 2022 at 6:44 AM
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