Getting pegged in a FLR.

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    In our FLR, my Alpha has discussed anal sex with me.....of course, I mean pegging. She loves my ass and could make me accept a strapon, but she is waiting for me to ask for it. Should I completely submit to her and beg to get pegged? Or should I make this a hard limit?
    Is it really that pleasurable?
     
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    Not everybody is in it. I love it. Try it out and you will know.
     
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    I enjoy it! For me, the psychological sensations are more powerful than the physical. The physical are great too and I enjoy being in a passive position where I just have to take it.

    What would each of you be getting out of it? What are you concerned will happen if you do decide you're okay with being penetrated?

    It could make it even hotter if it wasn't something you were super into, but you created a scenario where you'd have to beg her for it anyway.
     
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    Before you create a hard limit or go buy a strap on dildo and harness, play around a little and then decide if you like it or not. Start with something little and use lots of lube :)
     
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    I say try it. You might like it very much.

    I totally agree with JJ above. Passive position, cage on and let her take me. I have never released being pegged but my submissive feelings are rushing through my body at the speed of light! I love what that does for me in that way. She enjoys the power of doing the act and showing me who's the boss in the family.
     
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    #6 beta7, Dec 3, 2021
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    I think it would empower my Alpha. And it would further my submission. I'm afraid of the initial penetration.
    It would be hot for me to buy her strapon, though. Even hotter to put it on her.
     
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    I think you should definitely give it a chance. I can understand your hesitation but if you go about it the right way, there is an enormous amount of pleasure to both physically and mentally be had; for both you and your alpha. I can't speak for the Alpha but as the submissive receiver, there is nothing more submissive than letting someone have their way with penetrating you - all you can do is lay back/bend over and take it (enjoy it). All I can say/echo is just take it slow. Start small-ish and use plenty of lubricant (but not too small otherwise its going to be no different than a finger). Try to also be relaxed as possible. Maybe give your Alpha a massage prior to, to set the mood, or a bath perhaps. Something that lets the body relax, that way you'll be in the mental and physical state to receive it. Personally, it's the only way I have an orgasm anymore and in my opinion, they are far more powerful and longer lasting than a traditional male orgasm.
     
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    You only live once, so try it! Just take it easy at first with lots of lube. Most guys who've been pegged like it.
     
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    By begging, she gets the opportunity to withhold it from you. This gives even more control over you, so yes, if you want it.

    For my part, I beg in the meantime.
     
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    My experience is that i always have to ask....She never offers it.... "will you fuck my ass please" is the usual line, and depending on how she's feeling she either will or she wont,
     
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    Madame either makes me request and beg for it occasionally she tells me she is going to take me.

    Many time's she merely directs me to do myself with her direction.

    It can become an addiction at least for me.
     
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    Does she pound your ass, I mean roughly?
     
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    Sometimes depending on her mood. Her choice.
     
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    That sounds very hot.
     
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    If you haven't yet, try some buttplugs 1st, work your way up a bit so you are used to it (and can figure out what lube you like). It will probably Still be uncomfortable the 1st time but hopefully not painful. Trust me: she will be fucking your mind as much as your ass, but I agree with above that it is something to experience.
     
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    Good info. How hard does your partner fuck your ass?
     
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    My Wife and I work together, but she runs the company.

    This morning, as we are home and getting ready for work, she bent me over her bed, slapped my ass, and started dry humping me. Then she said she thought I should take Her harness to the office. She could go down the hall to my office, close the door, bend me over my desk, and fuck me. I was just processing all this when a knock at the bedroom door from one of our children interrupted both of us.

    We shared a glance and a laugh and went on getting ready for the day.

    Sadly she doesn't have time today to bend her employee over the desk today. But pegging is fun. Getting fucked at the office by your Boss is even more fun, especially when you can hear people talking through the walls.

    She still swooshed in, sat down at a couch in my office, spread her legs wide, lifted up her skirt and instructed me to kneel and lick her while she did paint touchup on her nails before a client meeting.
     
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    It's uncomfortable the first few times, at least it was for me. The first time, use a position where YOU can control the speed and depth of penetration. Trust me, you will still be submissive, you will still be fucked. You are giving your virginity to her, so it's still HOT. In practical terms she's a virgin too, and you have to learn together what you can take and how she can give it to you.
     
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    Does she make more money than you? My Domme is the breadwinner.
     
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    I'm trying to become a better house husband to my smart successful wife".
    Pegging would be a start, I guess.
     
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    Began small, there are dildo like 2.5 to 3cm that could fit to most of men. See if you like it, ass is full of nerve that makes you liking it and you will see many people loving it around.

    But as we are all different it could be different for you too. Abuse of the lubrifiant, and just think that being pegged by your master is also a mental orgasm, it is not only the pegging. It is a whole, the submission, the pleasure you get to be on you four and having a dominant that "abuse" you.

    I found this part as the summum of the domination (and feminization), being used for the pleasure of the Master/dominant.

    Of course, preparation, enema, lub, a dildo that fits your ass size, training, all with respect and consentement and I am sure you will like it.
     
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    I fantasize about Alpha pulling my hair while slamming into me.
     
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    It comes as a surprise to people, but I'm actually paid nothing. I work completely for free.

    In practical terms I have a sizable monthly income from personal holdings, but all of those finances are controlled by her. Once a year I find out how much money I have and how wealthy I am when I go with her to a financial advisor. That review was just a few weeks ago. There was a funny moment when the finance guy was uncomfortable and said, Ma'am I know you control these things but does your husband know about this? She had taken $20K from an account of mine to pay a pair of credit cards. As it turns out, she had NOT told me. I just smiled and said, it's best to pay off those high interest loans. And it was dropped. Our relationships is really that controlled. And she had very good reasons for doing what she did.

    Over many years she has earned complete trust, and that trust has allowed me to surrender to her completely. Because I trust her, I can let her Lead with no worries. I've turned over six figure sums to her without even a second thought.

    I'm no Bezos but I'm just on the edge of independently wealthy. If I lived alone I would want for nothing.

    Income wise she makes far more money annually though I may have a slight edge on net worth. Taken together we are definitely not poor.
     
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    My Alpha partner makes sure that the staff at a restaurant know she is in control. Everything from ordering for me or I have to check with her if I can have a drink. IN front of the waiter.
     
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    To each their own. My mistress takes me 2 sometimes 4 times a week. It's somthing u have to do a couple times to find the nitch.
     
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