Hey, this is my first post after research-lurking for a while! First up thanks CM for the useful insights and encouragements, any more of that would be really welcomed and hope I can give the same to others someday. Been exploring and settling into chastity for over a year now. Like others I felt I was masturbating too much, opened up to my wife and wondered if chastity could help after coming across it online. Started with a CB-6000 with lock-ups for a couple days at a time, and eventually moved onto a MM Jailbird a few months ago. Now she is my KH and been working up to weekly releases. My sex drive is much higher than hers, for us it's been a way of showing my willingness to save sexual release for her, rather than a kink or FLR. She no longer feels under pressure to have sex... only if she's in the mood, otherwise she's happy to get me off knowing that I haven't masturbated without her... Maybe not what chastity is about for many here, but it's what it is to us... We see this has improved our marriage lots so far, but still isn't always an easy thing to do. Yesterday she asked me to go the next few weeks locked without release, which is new for us. I'm a bit nervous really, any advice? Also any others using chastity for a similar circumstance of different sex drives? Thanks!!