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Gay man & new to all this

Discussion in 'The Foyer' started by Cropbtm, Sep 11, 2017.

  1. Hi
    I have always been the Top guy since I was 17, I am now mid 50's.
    A couple of years ago, I met a lad who desired to be locked up in a chastity device, but for various reasons, mainly financial, his desire was never achieved.
    I'm now sexually single and wank too much. I have a desire to lock myself up, is that odd?

    My income isn't that good, but really think locking myself up to stop night or morning wanks, would benefit my life in general. A physical self discipline, something I never achieve through thought alone.

    My ideal would be to find someone, preferably male, who has devices that I could try, if only for a few hours, maybe during other Dub/Dom activities. East Sussex UK would be ideal.

    Await to hear.
  2. Welcome @Cropbtm@Cropbtm and good luck with your search. You might want to try the Classifieds section. I haven't seen too much of this type of connecting occurring on Chastity Mansion. It's more of an informational forum. In regards to a device to stop you from wanking almost no device can stop you. The device really is a speed bump and a reminder that you should stop. Ultimately it is will power that is required to make it work.
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  3. you might want to try fetlife for that. Might have better luck
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