Gag reflex

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    I am having trouble when giving my Dom a blowjob. I always gag and choke. Is there any information non how to control my.gag reflex
     
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    You can modify or reduce it with some practice. First acclimate your mouth and throat to the feeling of something being back there. Use a toothbrush or dildo to begin to trigger gag reflex, but back off. Do that several times a day or more, if possible. For example, every time you brush your teeth, use the brush to work tongue at back of mouth. Get to where you can leave it in position without gagging. Then gradually go further back into throat. After some practice you can desensitize the gag reflex.

    I also use a trick taught to me by another member here. He suggests you fold your thumb into your palm. When you begin to go down on your partner, squeeze the thumb in your hand as hard as you can. For some reason that will help deflect the gag reflex.

    Good luck and enjoy.
     
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    Thanks I will try that. Right now he is waiting to get his cock all the way in me. He started me off with a 4 in dildo and will increase the size by a inch until I am ready for his 8! Inch cock
     
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    Good luck and enjoy.
     
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    The gag reflex can be trained away. It belongs to the polysynaptic reflexes and is overcome with practice or concentration.

    However, your body reacts this way because it wants to inhale and at that moment a foreign body, i.e. the penis or strapon, blocks the airway.

    Therefore, find a good rhythm, swallow deeply when you inhale and practice.
     
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    Good luck. Happy he's working with you. I have heard some Dom's like hearing their sub/slaves choke on their cock. Power thing I guess.
     
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    It is a turn on for me when they gag. And keep eye contact.
     
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    He does like to see me choke a little but not as much as I have been
     
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    Just a dream
     
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    If you breath through your nose, it is impossible to gag. When you breath the muscles that control your gag reflex are engage making it not possible. Unless my dentist was lying to me, and was trying to just get me to stop gagging on an x-ray bite plate... but it worked for me on numerous things!
     
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    Ok thanks will try that
     
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    Nice you're getting some tips. Great news for your Dom as he'll be getting lots of BJ's to see what works..:)
     
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    I will have to try to remember that. I have a terrible time at the dentist with gagging.
     
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    Will test this theory with a BBC friend…:)
     
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    For my training, Mistress had me wear a penis gag, with different size inserts, until I overcame my gag reflex. I found that the more I concentrated on sucking on the plug, the less frequently I gagged. This confirms the earlier post about breathing through your nose. It really seems to work for me. Obviously, with the gag fastened in place, there's not much opportunity to breathe through your mouth anyway.
     
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    Ok will try a small gag to help me out
     
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    great info! Thanks!
     
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