Recently I purchased this* digital worksheet to help communication round interests and limits with my wife. I filled it out & showed it to her. She took her time to look through it, and then we discussed. Below are some of what came off of our discussion. 1) There was one thing that she thought was off limits that I'm happy to try. 2) It led to a very nuanced discussion of what she enjoys about our lifestyle, and opened both of our eyes to certain possibilities. She loves me being a strong male personality in the house, but LOVES the idea that she has control over my body. She wants everyone from the outside to think that we have traditional gender roles. However, she now controls all aspects of my body. She had already purchased me a new wardrobe and dictated my grooming routine. Now, she dictates my exercise and diet. She bought me some really tight running shorts to wear while I service her at night and calls it my uniform. It is even to the point I am to ask permission to use the restroom (only when we are alone together). I knew she enjoyed exploring control, but I had no idea she was interested in this level of control until we talked through this worksheet. Honestly, I'm super surprised she wanted to go this far. It's definitely pushed me out of my comfort zone. Last night before bed I asked to use the restroom, and she told me I had to take the dog out first. Talk about being put in my place! *I have no financial interest in this product.