From Male orgasm control to cuckolding

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    Like Penney, my wife has the option but has not yet cucked me. Also would love to hear others' experiences. I'm certainly open to the idea of her fucking other men (almost certainly my close friends) but the reality likely would be quite different.
     
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    subrigger A good cuck prep, serves and cleans.

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    Awesome! This was a great comment. I have been in swinger for years with my wife and I can see what you are saying. We now roleplay cuckolding but it will really be a MFM. And the porn crap is so out there, you seem to point that out ALOT, really cool.

    I most of our friends over the years in the swinger lifestyle have seperated. But their kids were grown up or they had no kids. But I feel my wife and i always took breaks from swinging and I always was the middle person for communication. Guys and gals have their own thing. But guys do get territorial, we don't even realize it. And women love attention.. and often don't realize it.. so you get a positive and negative together and there will be sparks.

    Having a poly or open sexual lifestyle is riskier than monogamous... but wow it is so much fun.
     
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    Are you bi?
     
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    subrigger A good cuck prep, serves and cleans.

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    curious, I have never done anything with a guy but a few times during an orgy / group sex I have had an incidental touch of a cock or a pair of balls. Doesn't turn me on.. but knowing it didn't turn me on made me more confident in my sexuality. But I am a sub and having a dom command me to perform for a guy is hot, so in that context being bi is hot when I am a sub following commands. A long answer hehehe.
     
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    In a period of about five years we went from vanilla to hotwifing to cuckolding. After about six month of cuckoldry, my wife wanted orgasm control. This naturally led to chastity and entering a FLR. I imagine things can just as easily progress in the other direction, though.
     
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    I was asking because you mentioned a good cuck preps and didn't know if you meant preps a bull. As a former eager cocksucker (and greedy swallower) I can testify that it's much better taking a hot creamy mouthful straight from the source.
     
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    subrigger A good cuck prep, serves and cleans.

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    Well I have fantasized about that but nothing even close. My wife/mistress is all about getting filled up herself so it will be awhile before I can even think about that... which is fine. having tons of fun.
     
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    It must be wonderful watching her taking a hard cock. Does she have one bull or multiple guys? Has she ever been gangbanged?
     
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    Sometimes chastity gets confusing as does most fetish play. Chicken and egg type of deal. Where you cuckolded because you are a "sissy" or did you become a sissy because you were cuckolded. Same goes for the reason you were locked up.

    I am locked up due to our teasing and denial games which turned into longer term denial. For us the focus is T&D, locked or not. My wife is fine with me unlocked if I promised to never masturbate anymore. I cannot do that unlocked for 6 months, so I am locked even though I can still masturbate while locked and escape if I want to. As I say, it is the promise, not the cage that keeps me chaste. The cage is sort of like my wedding ring which I twirl when I am tempted to stray. :)

    I find the locking up part easy. After 5 years it is not something I think about regularly just like my wedding band. It is noticeable when I notice it. :) It is the orgasm denial that is the tough part but gets easier every year. I play at being submissive in that I am only sexually submissive during sex. Once sex is over we reverse roles.
     
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    KHtoCaptainScarlett Full time key holder to my husband

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    Here's the latest update for those who asked. Hubby going nuts... Locktober over but waiting until tomorrow night (Friday) for release. My new found stud ("Brian") is coming here this time, to our house. Hubby will be in the spare room. Brian will do his magic again (I can't wait) and leave. Hubby will be released and enjoy.... well, whatever comes his way. Not sure how he'll handle it, but he says he's as excited as he was last week when I came home after my date. Hubby will be allowed PIV for the first time in several months... if he pleases me first. Those conditions he already knows. I thought I'd feel guilty, but I feel only excitement. And the Captain is finally getting what he's wished for. Will try to update this weekend - although I'm working 2 doubles.... ugh. J
     
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    Does cuck hubby have cleanup duties or just take sloppy seconds?
     
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    Cannot wait for the update from KHtoCaptainScarlett!
     
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    Congratulations on being in love with him enough to satisfy his fantasy ...

    You know what would really mess with his mind is to put the key in a self address envelope and give it Brian and say ... can you remember to mail this to me please .... and take your time ....

     
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    Update!


    It’s been a few weeks since I have written here. With me being very busy with work, and a lot of travel, it’s been difficult to comment but I have enjoyed reading my wife’s comments, and now I’m finally home I can give you an update to our recent experiences.


    As some of you know already, we have been experimenting with this transfer from a chastity lifestyle to a cuckold/chastity one. My wife has become quite well informed, thanks to this website and the encouragement of a few members. What had been a one-sided fantasy had become a mutual reality that she had now apparently fully embraced. She was hooked.


    A few weeks ago, my wife finally took the plunge and had an evening with a coworker who has been pursuing her for many months. She kept asking me if I was sure, and to be honest, I wasn’t. But watching her become so excited, I showed more encouragement than I felt. I had been locked for the entire month of October (no milking, no relief at all). Yeah, she promised me she’d make it worth my while (with a cheeky wink), but I really also didn’t want to lose my wife.


    That night I stayed home, pacing, and when she finally came home, she said she’d had a very good time. The guy’s penis was apparently much thicker than she’d ever imagined. I was almost hyperventilating when she came into the bedroom and she laid next to me, kissed me and thanked me. She still wore her sexy lingerie, and I pulled her little panties to one side to find her once tight little pussy much bigger than I’d ever seen or felt. I ran my fingers gently inside her, and she purred, “be gentle, I’m aching a little”. I could still smell their sex, my balls ached, my cock was nearly exploding. I kissed her, and she told me to gently lick her. I did, and with her hand on the back of my head, she gently pushed my head lower to lick her out. There really wasn’t much left of him, and as I found out then next day, her stocking tops, underwear, the back of her skirt, and even the seats of her car showed the result of their lovemaking. And yes, I did clean that up too. She was so very content. She held my, kissed me, held my balls and told me how good she’d been fucked she had come like never before. She fell asleep still dressed up. I wish I’d taken a picture. I laid there for quite a while staring at my fucked wife. I was aching for her.


    The next morning, she told me she wanted to do this again. Maybe at our house next time. She smiled. She was very happy. I was packing my bag for another trip, and hoped I could last until the end of the month. I too now was excited. We are actually doing this…. Part 2 next.
     
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    Perhaps one day my being locked will lead in this direction. I would not object at all. For now I am happy to be looking forward to being caged!
     
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    slavette sissy cuckold

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    i generally do short-term lockups because it just messes with my head sooooo much. my Wife likes to signal that she's going on a date in the near future by locking me up. She calls it "guaranteeing i'm as excited about her date as she is." She usually unlocks me a day or two afterward, but lately, that's gone on as long as a week.
     
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    Wow I can’t imagine being locked for an entire week after the wife has a date. Are you on the hook for cleanup duties right after her date? Once you’re unlocked are you allowed reclaiming sex?
     
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    Great transition. We are swingers, and only play with couples, but after being caged, I couldn’t stop thinking about seeing her with another guy. Eventually we tried an MFM, and now she has a free ticket to Cuckold me with him

    For us, or rather me, whilst the sex is exciting, the fear of losing the woman I adore is terrifying - so choosing a bloke/bull is to be done wisely, ie someone nice, but not so nice she could ever dream of leaving.

    Be wary. This is a very dangerous game!!!
     
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    If i'm lucky, i get cleanup duties. If i'm really lucky, she'll unlock me, and if i'm super lucky, she'll tease my nipples while i wank.

    Reclaiming sex? What's that?
     
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    I see. So do you help prepare her for her dates? I’m sure being told to lock up and then help her prepare must be quite a tease!

    And I guess it’s safe to assume you are present for her dates as well.
     
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    We got into cuckolding before chastity and before we even really knew what cuckolding was. We had a MMF threesome with someone she'd met over the summer. Flirted with him all summer (with my blessings) but didn't do anything sexual until I was able to be involved. After they kept up communication across the country (again, with my blessings).

    She eventually confessed that she had feelings for him and wanted to go visit as they were good friends, but also wanted permission to be intimate with him. After a few weeks of conflicted feelings I was confident our relationship was strong enough and I trusted her enough. Agreed they could mess around but not have PIV. She sent some pictures and communicated to me a lot and I found I was very aroused by the situation. Basically spent all day masturbating thinking about them together. That lead to research about my feelings and my discovery of cuckolding, chastity, and many other interrelated fetishes.

    Eventually I confessed to my feelings about the situation. We'd played with femdom before but it was just that: play. After several very lengthy discussions I told her about my interest in chastity, cuckolding, D/s, and the like. She responded well enough but neither of us really "got off the ground" with it so-to-speak. She still did visit him a few more times and it was fun for us, but his own relationship (his partner was aware of our arrangement) started to go south and he became emotionally unstable. Eventually we had to cut off contact with him.

    FLR was off the table for the time since that but we've gotten back into over the past few months. She's finding more and more that she enjoys denying my orgasms and her libido and dominance are increasing. We've had a lot of positive feedback for each other recently. She's expressed interest in finding a partner but we haven't yet.
     
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    You sent her across the country to have oral with another man but expected her not to have PIV with him?! That must have been an excruciating tease for her (especially if your threesome with him included PIV). Are you sure she kept that promise?
     
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    Threesome did not include PIV with him. Neither his girlfriend nor I were okay with it.

    She visited him 4 or 5 times and I think after the 2nd I decided I was okay with (and very turned on by) her having PIV with him. It was his girlfriend actually that shot it down. They respected her wishes and I'm confident they weren't having it anyway since she'd at least have told me after.

    Weirdly enough no, I was never worried about it. We communicate a lot and have never had any serious trust issues. If I was worried she'd lie about something like that she wouldn't be someone with whom I'd like to spend the rest of my life.

    Now it's a non-issue though. She's allowed to have whatever kind of sex with whomever she wants so long as she tells me. I can't say no to it. :) She says she wants more partners but isn't looking very hard at the moment because she wants to focus on our FLR first. In the future she wants to start actively seeking.
     
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    If i'm lucky, i get to go to the mall or any other stores she wants to visit when she wants something new to wear on a date!! But, of course, you're right.... when she tells me to get my cage ready, i start getting really excited, and, by the time it's locked, it's often just in time before i would otherwise start wanking.

    If i'm super-lucky, then she'll let me shower with her as she gets ready. Shave her legs or any other areas that need shaving. Bring her the panties and bra she wants to wear, if she's wearing them...

    Whether or not i'm present, though, is a question that has a wider array of answers. One of her bulls prefers that i not be around, so they often go to his place. Her main local bull, though, likes having me around. In fact, he'll come by for a blow job even when he knows she's unavailable.
     
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    It's odd.... when i'm locked up like that, and i'm pretty sure i've mentioned this, my brain goes to mush like i've been drugged. but, it wasn't as hard as you might think.... i mean it was, but, since i never released, i was still enthused about her dating.

    No, i don't get any reclaiming sex... unless you counting eating her cream pie as re-claiming sex. i'm quite small.... and so she's just written me off as far as being a real man goes. i suppose dressing the way i often do doesn't help all that much.
     
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