Friends finding out

Funny how she knew. Maybe her hubby wears one?

 

My wife telling her best GF about me (us) ended up with that GF's hubby wearing a cage about 6 months later. I was shocked. He does not even look at me when we're together at a party etc. Like it's my fault LOL

 

He could of told his wife no.

 

TBH, It's prolly kinda awkward. Likely why he will not look you in the eye

 

I get the feeling that chastity is much more mainstream than people think.
It's just that still, no one wants to admit it.

 

I really don’t think it’s mainstream. The internet just allows like minded people finding eachother.

 

It might be, I have some guy friends that had mentioned chastity cages in the past. They brought it up in random conversations about sex toys by what I perceived as straight laced vanilla people. The fact that they knew what they were is probably related to how much more chastity content and different styles you see online now. For example, if you were looking for a sexy blindfold online, most likely every kink store selling them would have a chastity section. Most people seeing that would be curious enough to at least look at them to see what it’s all about therefore spreading the awareness.

 

I remember the first time someone else knew, was wife's best friend. Wife allowed her to fully inspect me. She was also impressed with my freshly welted cane marks on my bottom

 

Around 80% of my wife's friends know I wear a full belt. A dozen or so have seen it.

 

That is wild you are so open with your sex life to everyone.

 

Or not sex life, as the case may be/

 

I live in one of the most liberal, kink/ poly friendly places in the USA, a relatively large percentage of the local population is quite open with their sex lives.

 

That's brilliant!

 

Yes, there is a fetish website called Fetlife. I'm astounded by how many people are on it, and chastity seems to pop up with so many couples, even in not Femdom couples - ie even with female subs, etc.

I also think it's getting quite mainstream.

I had a couple of exs who I used to do occassional chastity play with during sessions. I regret not wearing 24/7 as I used to masturbate when they weren't around. In hindsight it was unhealthy and the relatioship would have been much better had I have committed 100% of my sexual energy to the relationship.

 

I've been out to a fetish clubs (or private parties) where my date has worn my key round her neck. It's quite a lovely but vulnerable experience showing off to people that you're locked. No doubt I was the envy of very man there!

 

Well, her friend knows, so her boyfriend and some of other girls friends of her knows also, even partly, so her man knows also and may talk to others.

I don't say the whole city knows but there surly more than her now.

 

It's a shame that people that some people experience shame in this. I often think the world would be better if men were locked by default. It would certainly improve most relationships! Pornhub may lose a few subscribers though!

 

Agreed. The fact I can get a Chastity cage delivered from Amazon in 2 days definitely says something about how wide spread Chastity really is.

Iso.

 

We are purposely very careful about people not knowing due the perceived implications of me being caged. As in I'm a cuck, sissy, crossdresser etc. I'm none of these things but the wider general opinion is if you're caged you are.

 

I can get pink fuzzy metal handcuffs overnight. Chastity devices are the new gag gift for Bachelorette parties or maybe there are more serious bondage aficionados wearing fuzzy handcuffs than I believe.

 

Interesting point. It does make me wonder of often this comes from either directly from the female interest, or as a joke gift/purchase at a sex shop, then develops into more. It's quite a hot idea.

I do agree. They are becoming very common place. They show up in TV shows, eg Californication, and as pointed out above, are carried in sex shops and online sex shops like LoveHoney. Hopefully more people get into our kink!

 

A few years ago on our first visit to our favorite Hustler Hollywood, they had a single cage on display. Now they have numerous brands, types, and sizes. If they weren’t selling, Hustler wouldn’t be stocking them.