For or Against

Discussion in 'Female led relationships' started by At all Times, Jul 5, 2018.

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How would you describe your partners initial response to chastity or a FLR?

  1. Rejected out of hand

    12 vote(s)
    15.0%

  2. Cautious acceptance but reluctant to participate

    34 vote(s)
    42.5%

  3. Cautious acceptance but keen to encourage and learn more

    21 vote(s)
    26.3%

  4. Was her idea....!!

    13 vote(s)
    16.3%
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    #26 Joroincharge, Jul 9, 2018
    I spoke too soon. I see it HAS been amended!
     
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    #27 Dumb1, Jul 9, 2018
    I think MS that for most of us this is the reality however it surely has to be that a large percentage of us would dearly have loved the suggestion to have been from the other direction. I know for sure it would have been a secret fantasy of mine from a very early age.
     
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    #28 Mash2214, Jul 10, 2018
    That’s very Honouable for you to respond to so many peoples posts @At all Times Good for you.
     
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    #29 Linda's sissy, Jul 10, 2018
    Cautious acceptance, I brought it up with her before we were married. She thought it sounded interesting and agreed to try it. She never has taken to it the way I hoped she would. When I brought up chastity her attitude was "well if that's what you want" But when she saw me in chastity she thought it was funny and she has learned to use it as a punishment. In fact I am doing a one month punishment now.
     
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    #30 jemima, Jul 10, 2018
    @Linda's sissy please what did you do wrong that you being punish for.
     
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    #31 At all Times, Jul 10, 2018
    Maybe a separate poll?
     
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    #32 At all Times, Jul 10, 2018
    Thank you @Mash2214 I think it only polite and correct that anyone taking the opportunity to reply deserves some form of response.
     
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    #33 At all Times, Jul 10, 2018
    I think many of those partners that do go along with the desire of their other half to be kept in chastity do so with maybe some reservations, your wife being one of those. Having said that, seeing it as a punishment doesn't sound such a bad thing ;).
     
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    #34 At all Times, Jul 10, 2018
    @Steviepie you make a valid point
     
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    #35 Junebug15, Jul 10, 2018
    Please don't shove a square plug in a round hole!
     
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    #36 Cincy, Jul 10, 2018
    18 months ago, I told my wife that I always felt submissive to her, and that I liked the feeling, and asked her to tease and deny my orgasms. She said "Ok". Many months later I asked her if she thought I was truly submissive to her, or I just liked to play sex games...she said "I know and believe that you are truly submissive to me". Of course she is correct.
     
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    #37 At all Times, Jul 11, 2018
    @Cincy that's brilliant, you simple told your wife "I always felt submissive to her, and that I liked the feeling, and asked her to tease and deny my orgasms. She said "Ok"." reading it makes it sound simple and something that we could all learn from, was it that simply? Or was it more complicated than that?
     
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    #38 kcuck5280, Jul 12, 2018
    I think this is true for the most part. In our case we started out in the hotwife lifestyle. That eventually transitioned to not being allowed PIV prior to my wife's dates. This then transitotred to cuckolding... part of which was orgasm denial and being required to ask for permission to masturbate. As much as I try, I am pretty compulsive about masterbation. This led to a text one day from The Queen stating I needed to be locked up. I had actually started to research chastity on my own, so the request was timely. I am currently locked up about 50% of the time. The Queen had me get a PA earlier this year as I was able to pull out of my Jailbird. We are awaiting arrival of my Evotion Orion. I think the plan is pretty much permanent lock up. Something I am honestly not thrilled about but I realize is necessary.
    We are almost fifteen years into our marriage where I was very much the dominant partner. That has been reversed over the past year... our marriage has never been better or stronger. The Queen is clearly as happy as she's ever been. I am very fortunate.
     
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    #39 Joroincharge, Jul 12, 2018
    Mascara^Snake said: ↑
    So there's a general assumption that it's only ever males who introduce the concept of chastity to a relationship?

    But I see now that since the 'was her idea' :strong::strong::strong:was added to the poll the votes so far on it have been added at quite a rate.We shall see.
     
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