I am looking to hear if anyone has done any sort of initiation or celebration ceremony when they entered their FLR? I did a Google and was surprised to find nothing on this, I at least expected some crazy fantasy nonsense. There is a fair amount on an FLR wedding but nothing that I could find for when you first enter an FLR. In essence we are near to finalising our agreement and were looking to just have a simple little celebration / initiation ceremony for actually starting it. We did not want do anything particularly lavish or over the top, I do not think my girl friend would be interested in any particular fetish stuff like an evening of foot worship haha. But something more fun and maybe with some symbolism of moving into an FLR. Any ideas or any experience in this? We are planning to do this the coming weekend if all goes well, so I will update the thread with whatever happens. Maybe I'll get let out and have first post FLR orgasm haha!
I managed to put a little of our dynamic in our vows when we married. Nothing over the top or something anyone else but her would notice.
You could look at collaring ceremonies and modify it for you both, call it a locking/surrender ceremony, etc.
Here is a nice one: https://www.femaleledrelationships.net/female-led-relationships/female-led-collar-binding-ceremony
We did something similar by reading our agreement together and stating to each other our commitment. You could toast with champagne, or with a locking ceremony (or key sealing if already locked).
Not quite what you are talking about but when we got Kitten's first good cage, an HTv3, she removed the Chinese made device I was wearing and locked me into the HT on the upstairs stripper stage at the Friends Club in Austin with about 50 witnesses. The stage is near the edge of a balcony area and another 20 or so were watching from the dance floor downstairs.
We also didn’t have an official FLR ceremony it just sort of happened over time. I’m sure as Chastity and FLR grow more popular we will start to see FLR ceremonies.
Thanks for all the replies, they've been very interesting. I think anything we do we will keep quite simple but likely perhaps have a nice drink and the idea of reviewing the agreement as this will likely when it will come into effect sounds good.
I believe a tattoo is the best thing. A matriarchal, female supremacy, or some kind of power view of the sex symbols showing the leadership of the wife over the hubwife.
I would love a ceremony, like a tuperware meeting, some girls and their naked male around congratulating you for being locked. At least a day to have in the callendar to have an aniversary. It is in mine. I also think that the expression of the lady is important, if she feel happy of the event or if it is a chore as she don't care, and then we go back to vanilla girls or very shy ones like mine.
A tattoo is definitly the way to go. In our wedding vows, we described our roles and her and my positions in the relationship. The following weekend, Goddess got me a tattoo on my forearm that indicates I am a collared/owned male.