Good morning We have been in an FLR relationship for over one year now and everything is going great, I want my wife to introduce some humiliation into our roles for me. does anyone else have this in their relationships and if so would you mind sharing Thanks
We have been in our WLM/FLR for many years. I love some humiliation from my wife/KH . I think talking with your wife on things that embarrass you is a good start. Sissy panties, femine clothing etc.
In FLR marriage for long time. Humiliation occurs manly at beginning, mostly to train me and clear her dom status. A lot inf things can be humiliating, but are also ver subjective. So I suggest to talk between you two
Humiliation and chastity go well together. For us it's an integral part of our relationship. My wife is very good at it and we've been implementing what works. Verbal Humiliation is probably on top of the list. Every day she never misses opportunities to call me a slave instead of by my name. Every day she either urinates in my mouth, has me kiss her ass as she shocks her balls, Stands on my chest in heels looking down at me. Has me clean the bottoms of her shoes with my tongue, spit on the floor to lick it up, crush my food on the floor, slap my face, balls...etc. It really helps to accept my fait and deal with the constant caging, she loves the positive effect it has on me.
I invite my lady friends to witness me disciplining husband. I encourage them to make comments at certain times. I also make husband perform sissy maid service in full lingerie, petticoats and maid dress. When he's in Chastity or under Discipline, he has to address me as "Ma'am" or "Miss Cecilia"..
my wife dresses me every day as a sissy, verbally humiliates me talking about my small cock and how her boyfriends /bulls were much better and bigger than me and how she enjoyed them much more in bed, and of course i get spankings for the smallest infringement,
I dress as her 50’s wife daily. I am totally hairless nose down and I wear panties that are identical to her panties. We always go panty shopping together and I buy them. I wear a bra full time. At home I wear a pretty sheer lace or patterned bra that can hold my very large breast forms. They are about 700 g each and really help give me a nice figure. When we go shopping I have nice Glamorize Nearly A Cup bras. They are slightly padded and I can fill the cups. We have been using breast suction often and it is working nicely. My little breasts are getting larger. I prefer wearing a Rago 6 strap garter belt and Lace Top Berkshire stockings. I also prefer at least 4” heels. My dresses are mostly bodycon for fitting sheath dresses in pretty colors and patterns. I wear a dress every day at home. I also have two pretty black curly wigs to wear that really look nice when I am dressed. My wife likes to have me dressed to meet her at the front door whenever she goes out and comes home. The UPS and Amazon delivery drivers have often seen a pretty brunette at the front door as well. My wife likes to have me exposed as a woman. On vacations we like to select hotels with balconies so I can be seen.
Humiliation can be fun, but avoid triggers and stay true to yourself. For instance, I love it when she says it looks so cute, or small in it's cage, but saying it is too small when it's out, and erect isn't going to work for me.
I think the OP was looking for ideas for how to engage his wife and get her to agree to "Can I share something really super serious and private with you?" "Do you remember the one time you ____ [find a time when she accidentally embarrassed or humiliated you]?" "Yeah, well, it turns out that, in the context of our sex life together, something like that really, really turns me on. I won't accept being humiliated by anyone else, but if you did it in a way that linked it to our FLR or sex life or something like that, the part of me that wants so badly to serve you and be dominated by you would love that, even as the macho part of me would be crushed." "I hope you're willing to just hear this and not think I'm a freak. If it doesn't work for you, then it doesn't work for us, and that'll be the end of it. But if you want to explore it a bit, we can talk more. We can come up with ways to test it out." Then maybe you go out to a restaurant where you are guaranteed to not know anyone or be recognized, and she can make an off-hand comment to the waitstaff about your failure as a lover, or what-have-you. My very vanilla Wife calls me "Boy-Toy" in front of her girlfriends, and she's done it in front of her brother and his wife, with me right there. She does it in sort of a playful tone, so there's some ambiguity, but still, I'm sure they wonder. And I get all kinds of revved up. Peace!
My wife loves to tell me daily how small and worthless my penis is. The other night she had me jerking off and asked me if I wanted to hear what it sounds like when she would cum with her past lovers. She went on to do her best Meg Ryan, When Harry met Sally impersonation. Then told me I've never made her cum like that. It immediately made me cum. Quite humiliating.
My wife normally enjoys a sweet approach to verbal humiliation. She comments on my cage and says things like; "it's so cute", "it's so pretty", "it's so little". Then there are phrases that are somewhere between asserting dominance and humiliation, like yesterday she said sternly "you're being a little bitch" which was a warning (she decided to bake and I made a critical comment about the mess she had made in the kitchen).