FLH Not Living Together

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    Hello all! I am newly a keyholder and still trying to figure out my level of comfort with my dominance and the whole dynamic really. I have researched my heart out and continue to do so. What I haven’t heard much about is having a FLR and not living together. My boyfriend and I have not been together very long but he approached me with the idea of a cage quickly and I was instantly on board. However, we do not live together and he travels for work a lot. Has anyone been in this situation and have advice for how to keep the dynamic without seeing each other daily?
     
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    Yes, my GF and I were like that for a long time and it worked great.

    Zero masturbation and limited orgasms really focuses a guys mind haha
     
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    Thank you for the reply! What sort of things did she do to make you feel submissive when not together?
     
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    I'm not submissive, so nothing.

    I was only unlocked when she wanted, and as she grew more confident the duration increased. We are both interested in the same things so it's not bother (aside from me being insanely horny all of the time)
     
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    That sounds like us! Except that he wants to be slightly submissive. We are going to work on to what level he wants to take that.
     
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    Rarely a guy proposes chastity on himself at such early stage of relationship, all the more both of you are staying apart. You maybe a lucky girl. Go with his flow and suggestion, but take charge and slowly dominate over him.. while he is being denied, dont lose the privilege of being pleasured, get lots of oral orgasm from him once he is around.. by the way.. is he good at sex..?
     
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    He is VERY good at sex! Especially oral Thank you for your advice!
     
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    Without all the details I’m imagining although he’s chosen to be in chastity when you do see each other he gets released… I’d send him away wanting. Maybe “you can be released after youve pleased me”… but after say “I will release you just not tonight”.
    Sure to make him ponder what he’s got himself into after he’s waited so long and yet doesn’t get what he’s expecting. Dominance established!
     
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    auw.. make full use of his dick.. just dont let him cum..
     
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