So I just received my first true submission to my wife. As a reward for staying locked for one week I was allowed to service her orally and strap on to her with no release or any attention spent towards me at all... it honestly was more of an emotional bliss than I had expected it to be.
Congratulations to you, my friend! It's a very cool feeling. I've been researching this topic for a long time. Before engaging in any practice, partners discuss the terms of the game in detail. The most important condition for trust is transparency and openness to discussion and conflict resolution. I've monitored many sources and made a site list with videos about BDSM. The contract discusses in detail the actions that are possible during the practice, undesirable actions that may become possible under special conditions, and actions that are impossible under any conditions. A stop word is also stipulated, by which all actions cease. It is common for prospective lovers to discuss physical and mental safety, which greatly promotes trust and relaxation during sex.