First time orgasm and masturbation denial

Ron33 · Jan 19, 2021

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I have been going long stretches with out masturbation on and off during the last four years or so. But also found myself getting into heavy self relief periods during the first couple of years as PIV events became further apart. My Wife finally told me it was getting more uncomfortable as she aged. Natural changes and she really only did it because I wanted it. Lubricants did not help Doctor daid natural elasticity was the issue. Even my small penis as she stated was still too much dilatation.

My Wife and I started changing to externally jumping joint masturbation with out penetration. During the last two years that has ceased. She quit letting me close and refused massage offers even with no sex or Rewards expected guarantees. During the phase down period a massage was the route to a rub off session. Her on top external PV. Then later just her leg. Then stay away no massage or anything.

I had turned to masturbation but several of the last sessions my performance fell from bad timing and my self relief made me require much more effort on her part to get me to orgasim. That helped end her willingness to rub me off in any form.

We talked at Thanksgiving deep and hard about ourselves and any intimate contact. Her simple answer was she did not trust me too be able to be close without expecting something in return via sexual satisfaction.

That sparked her I guess to suprise me with the Xmas gifts of 3 cages. I had tried for months note to use masturbation in case she got interested in fooling around with me. I gave up and started cycle of self relief.

Since before Thanksgiving I have not cum . I renewed that vow to continue with Xmas gifts. Her big step up buying the cages signalled a possible restart of our prior playing with chastity. I continue to fight off strong feelings to relieve myself.

After all 3 cages failed to really fit or work well. She declared my new year's resolution was to order sizing rings from mature metal and determine measurements to invest into a steel cage that fits and will allow extended time wear safely. Hope for future.

Chastity may yet bridge the trust gap and allow us to renew things.
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When I massage my wife, I am locked. That way she knows I am doing just a massage and not wanting something sexual afterwards.

StubHub · Jan 19, 2021

Ron33 said: ↑

When I massage my wife, I am locked. That way she knows I am doing just a massage and not wanting something sexual afterwards.
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That is where I hope we are going. Her restart of chastity at Xmas. She may be ready to use this tool to control what can and will happen. Only the future knows what will develop.

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