First time locking ceremony

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    Never thought my wife would agree to chastity but she saw one while we were in an adult novelty store and after searching the different ones she ordered one. It should be here this week and I want to make the first locking special. Candles, wine, me expressing my devotion to her alone and going down on her after the lock snaps shut. Any other ideas to make it a memorable occasion?
     
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    Dream up a good and memorable event because, when that's over, what you want may never matter much again!
     
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    Do whatever feels right to you. I locked myself for the first few weeks because I was getting used to my device and taking it on and off a lot. I do not think my wife ever locked my chastity cage. We have been into so many fetishes over the years that this was just another one we were trying.

    Somewhere along the line when we had stopped and started a few times and I got used to 24/7 wearing, my wife asked me if I loved her enough to give up my orgasms and promise to never masturbate again. I said yes and the rest is history.

    P.S. I have a security screw in my Jailbird, not a lock and it takes a while to screw that sucker in. :)
     
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    My mistress loves to ty up my balls and has been thinking about tattoos that could be placed on them. Here she inked in two possibilities. The first is her name for me in mathematical symbols, <0, less than zero
    The second is the infinity symbol to indicate that the cock cage will be permanent. She plans to take me to the tattoo artist over the weekend.
     
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    I relate ...

    TND is not new for my wife & I - but chastity is - my device is on order still.

    We have no plans for the locking 'ceremony' - but that is not to say we won't have one.

    The seriousness of the 'event' will certainly be acknowledged.
    This isn't a game for us - its a way of life.

    My Triad: Tease & Denial. Cheerful Servitude. Wearing her panties.
     
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    First off you should make sure your cage is comfortable enough for long term wearing. After that give your totall submission to your wife. She will be taking total control over you and when and if you will Recieve an Orgasm.

    Your pubic hair should be removed , you should be only allowed to wear panties and you should over your backside to your wife to be tanned and used how she pleases. This seems things can all be done before you hand over the key. These are only suggestions you can do it any way you want or you can just take it slow one day at a time.

    Their is no rule book on How To Start Chastity its up to you and your Spouse. Enjoy your new Journey.
     
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    What a great thing to celebrate. The only idea I have would be invite another married couple, regardless of what they do or do not know. Others recreate the marriage ceremony at some point to celebrate, with or without guests. But what you have planned sounds great. What a lucky lady. Wish you both the best.
     
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    Just make her the dinner, a neat romantic table-seting, candles, good wine.
    Kneel before her and offer the cage and keys.
    Nothing too elaborate, be simple.
    Cheers!
     
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    A ceremony sounds really cool. Perhaps you could collaborate on the event. Sort of like when people write their own wedding vows.
     
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    My wife & I each wrote a poem that we read to the other at our wedding.
    The poems were the majority of the ceremony - short & sweet.

    That was almost 2 decades ago but our commitment is stronger today than it was back then.
     
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    Sharing your love and intimacy is what's most important, in My opinion. A romantic evening together sounds like a great idea! Focusing on the seriousness of the commitment is a wonderful approach, but don't forget to smile and laugh together. :)

    Our first locking event took way longer than expected and ultimately left us laughing like fools. Even though it was a seriously intimate moment when the lock finally clicked, it took a bit of humor and two lighter hearts for us to get there. :love:
     
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