first time going outside caged how does it feel?

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    going to try today i imagine i will be more likely to keep it on longer if don't to take it off before going outside. What are your experiences and tips ?
     
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    You just gotta go for it. You'll get used to it!
     
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    I very rarely have a cage on, however I've never taken it off simply because I was going out of the house.

    It feels very liberating.

    I do find driving uncomfortable and I'd not want to do a long journey, but that's most likely cage choice than anything.
     
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    My first time was quite a while ago but I remember feeling like it was obvious and I felt very self conscious.

    Locked 24/7 now so it's nothing unusual.

    10 minutes and you'll forget about it.
     
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    you feel very self-conscious. It's fun
     
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    Business as usual. After a while it's just a piece of jewelry like a ring you wear on your finger. Don't overthink it, just try to stay comfortable.
     
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    First week wearing it all day, I kept thinking about it. I was very aware of it, kept looking down to see if it was something that showed through pants, wondering if I walked differently, if others could tell, if others were wearing one too.

    I also kept thinking “omg, I can’t get hard, I don’t have that option, I can’t play with it even if I wanted!”

    It was very thrilling. No I hardly notice it’s on, and feels very strange not wearing it. In fact if I leave it off (after she unlocked me the night before) and get hard it somewhat startles me. It gets erect and I feel something different and strange, then remember that “oh I forgot what that felt like”.

    Enjoy the newness
     
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    I've been caged so long that it's the opposite, it feels weird just having things... dangle down there
     
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    Earlier this week I was at the grocery. I looked up and saw a woman looking at me. When I looked up and accidentally busted her looking at me she just smiled. Made me wonder what she might think if she only knew I am a caged man. I told Ann about it when I got home, she just smiled and told me she has caught women before checking me out.
     
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    What do you wear and how big is it? Maybe it is obvious X_x
     
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    No, it isn't obvious LOL, I got over that fear some time ago. LOL But it makes interesting thoughts :)
     
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    I am wearing now quite bulcky Cellmate. I used to it. Some office stuff may suspect, I am wearing something strange, but it's not my business, what do they think in this regard.
     
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    There’s the self consciousness that everyone must know you’re caged. However, that quickly passes when you realize no one is treating you any differently then they did before. After awhile it passes and you almost forget you have it on. Just don’t forget and use a urinal or you may really be embarrassed. :oops:

    The bottom line is not that many people would even think about you being caged. It’s really a hot secret among you and your keyholder.
     
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    At first you are aware of the fact that you are wearing it, but soon forget about it.

    I was out and about today wearing snug fitting boxers under running shorts with built in brief, and I believe the cage and lock are sometimes slightly visible, but I doubt anyone knows the cause of the odd shapes. I can feel the metal if I brush my hand cross my genitals. I don't believe I thought about it for the 2-3 hours I walking about and sitting in a park.

    A young woman at the next table a couple days ago wasn't wearing a bra and it was obvious she had pierced nipples with barbells installed. So...

    Women experience this concern when they begin menstruation and venture out for the first time with a pad or tampon in place. No body knows or cares unless they tell them.
     
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    I'm just in my 2nd week caged. Was fine going shopping and into the office. I was quite nervous going to the gym locked but think i'll relax eventually. Going for a swim and sauna is going to be interesting though.
     
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    I tried mine on a few hours ago. Just over 5. Give the key to my wife and then a few hours later had to take my baby to an urgent care. So I'm out wearing it now. No big deal really, just makes peeing more difficult since I have to sit.
     
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    It is unlikely anyone will notice. If a woman gives you THAT look, revel in it. Get used to it.
     
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    My guess is most people looking are thinking that your well hung. If they know about chastity then they are figuring out which it is. Keep them guessing
     
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    I feel safer with the cage on after so many years.. its like jock strap type of protection. Almost unnoticeable unless you are wearing tighties and your device has a mini pad lock that swings and rattles around. In fact, i feel vulnerable without it. Its fun, its like having a little dirty secret that no one knows.. but at the same time fear of being found out.
     
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    Gym is a breeze.. in fact i like working out with the cage on.. the heat and warmth make the balls dangle lower and more comfortable.. my scrotum is tight.. still no sign of skin loosening yet.. swimming is wonderful at least for breaststroke.. freestyle may flutter the balls unless the ring is small.. sauna? Its a different ball game. My club insists on full nudity at jacuzzi/sauna section. Never tried… anyone did..?
     
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    The first time is really scary! I was so paranoid someone would notice.

    I've got a collection of smaller tighter cages that are either almost invisible or completely invisible under clothing. The ones that have a slight bulge look like a natural bulge.

    I now don't think about it at all when out, other than when I need to go to a public toilet and need a stall to sit down.
     
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    First time I went out I was wearing a big steel cage. It was very showing in my pants. I told my KH that I was feeling insecure about that. She only said grow a pair. Now a days I wear a nub. Its not showing at all. So i feel more comfortable know. Its fun beeing in a meeting or talking to women thinking "if only the knew"
    Just keep wearing it and u will get used to it
     
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    I rarely used outdoor..cause my wife believe i will not masturbate at outdoor... and we use same pantyhose so...its not comfortable..
    But there is 1 times i used outdoor...
    at family lunch
    My wife literally show all family the key on her neck..and all my family asking it.."what key is that?"i just can hide the embarasement
     
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    I agree!
    And After a few times out you won’t even think about it.
     
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