First time being caged.

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    Hey everyone. I’m about to have my first taste of being caged. I have always had a huge foot fetish and love the humiliation and being under women’s feet. This of course comes with a submissive side of following their commands, which is where chastity porn and fantasy's came from.

    All my relationships have included indulging in my foot fetish (would never last without it) but this relationship is the best I have ever been in and want it to be the last, we both feel this way. We are also very very kinky and she is down for everything. She is very independent has a sexy dominant side that comes out while fooling around. Since we are so comfortable with each other I brought up the idea of her locking me up for me to earn it and not be able to touch myself without her. She was all for it and is excited about it. So I ordered one and it came it today. I really wanted it to come in earlier this week since she is leaving to visit family out of state this whole week. Should I try it on myself this week or wait for her and let us break it in together? I have no experience with this at all and would love any advice. Thanks!
     
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    If it were me, I would want to know that I could wear the cage comfortably before handing the key to someone else. ...On the other hand, depending on your relationship, it might be appropriate to call her and ask for permission first.

    Also, curious minds want to know, ...what cage did you get?
     
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    Bye-Bye Birdie metal cage. 4.3 inches long with 3 ring sizes. I’m larger so I went big and figured I could always downsize if it’s too big.
     
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    Hello and welcome. Good luck
     
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    I agree with Alana. Ask her first, but you should experiment with it on your own before you hand her the key. You want that to be a good experience from the start.
     
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    thanks for the advice!
     
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    Welcome to our community. i hope you find it helpful and enjoyable
     
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    It's great that she is in into it from the start. A lot of us have had to take it slow with their partners to get where you are. I would definitely experiment first with the cage. Rarely is the first cage the most comfortable, but you do learn from using each one. Unless you are extremely lucky, it will take at least couple different ones before you find the right fit. Good luck.
     
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    Welcome to Chastity Mansion and have fun with your cage for now.
     
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    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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