First time at male chastity

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    Hi,
    I habitually act out when my wife travels. Some examples are hooking up with a guy and getting a blowjob; meeting a guy to perform mutual masturbation in a public restroom; filming myself masturbating and posting on the web; watching porn and falling asleep on the recliner with my cock in my hand with teen boys in the house....
    Need I say more. She left today and I'm locked up until her return. It's best for everyone involved. Never done this before, but I'm willing to give up something to keep from doing stupid s**t. Only complaint so far is pissing is bitch, but then again I learned to pee with a PA, so this can be done.
     
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    Welcome and good luck. Great place for support. I’m relatively new to this as well. Only been locked since 9/18. Have found a lot of good info and met some great people here. And, yes, peeing is a challenge but already having a PA I was used to sitting.
     
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    Does your wife have the key? If not, what are you doing to prevent yourself from unlocking?

    Does your wife know about the things you've done while she's gone? If not, you need to tell her. Yes, she'll probably divorce you, but if you love and respect her at all, she needs to know who you really are.
     
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    Good luck and welcome
     
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    You're wife must be a very tolerant woman, most would have kicked your ass to the curb a long time ago.
     
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    She knows just about everything I've done, she knows who I really am. She knows I've been with another guy, she knows I've posted videos of myself online.
    She does not know I've locked myself up. I will let her unlock me when she gets home. Next time she will have the key, for now if I want to unlock I have to go through her things to find the key and that is enough to make me realize I can't do anything stupid.
     
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    I'll add that she left for a work related trip, returning Thursday. 3 1/2 days to go.
     
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    Yes she is, I'm not proud of the things I have done and I've had counseling which helped. I don't hook up with guys any more, but struggle with masturbating to porn.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    Ummm...welcome? I hope you get your shit together and start thinking about the repercussions of your actions and how they affect others.

    You have no idea of what diseases you could have caught or spread, even with a condom. And dude! Falling asleep with your dick in your hand where your kids could see? That’s pretty bad.

    Get yourself tested for std’s, and don’t expose your family to your sexual...activities. A cage might help, but it won’t cure being inconsiderate. Respect your wife, your children, and their image of you, even if you don’t.

    Hope chastity will help though, and good luck.
     
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    Welcome to cm
     
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    Just being open and honest about who I am. I came to terms with the fact that I was being reckless and selfish. I even considered castration. Fortunately I'm STD free and the days of that risky behavior are behind me.
     
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    Nicoftime The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts

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    Good for you, lots of info on cages and everything in between here. Good luck
     
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    Welcome. I think you're ahead of the curve in many ways and will be fine. Know you've got a problem? Check. She knows your issues? Check. Already got a PA? Check. Got a cage? Check. Only one step left -- get a good PA cage, give your wife the keys, and beg her to grant you foregiveness and aid in your recovery as a masturbator by holding your keys. Do it this week.
     
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    Thank you for your honesty and for sharing. It sounds like you are making efforts to curb some behaviors, and sounds like chastity will provide at least some practical solutions. You’ll find plenty of information and support here.
     
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    I would say no device will be a replacement for self control for sure. This might be a good start though. My wife would have neutered me for some of those actions.
     
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