First Orgasm After Chastity?

Every person is different. It will be what it will be. I hope that she didn’t mean Christmas 2020. Just enjoy the experience.

 

You will find out what control you had not cumming will be gone. You will become a Minute Man. Lol. Like the rest of us. Volume will be about the same. The body over longer periods in between a orgasm will ( how do I say this ) recycle your seman.
I think I am locked until Christmas also.

 

I would say it's at least 10x more intense. I find it hard to be quiet and it encompasses your whole body for about 15 seconds. But.... chastity does make you a quick shooter so don't get over stimulated before you even put it in.

 

Also be prepared for an experience "other way around". You might think/wish about something more intense, but it could also be a feeling with some disapointment. In particular right after the release you may "fall off the cliff" and become grummpy for a few days - a week or so. Soon, you will desire longer periods for denial or even not want to know when your next release will be.

 

What everyone else says plus..... you’re ready for round two much quicker!

 

I’m like that plus the orgasm is always a pleasureless one. I don’t know what it is, but as I get older orgasms really do a job on me. I’d rather be milked and kept frustrated. At least then I don’t crash and I’m kept horny and useful.

 

The first one @PrincessKH let me have after about a week was so so intense, like it was the first time all over again, but i think that was more because of the anticipation of the release and the horniness of her and I doing something very kinky. Just enjoy the ride, so to speak, and try not to put too much pressure on yourselves. Make sure you give her plenty of attention before in case you dont last long, and communicate afterwards. We are still learning and talking about what went well and what didnt doesnt sound sexy, but for me it really is, and it gives your SO a chance to open up too.

 

I forgot to mention to watch out for the drop. Ince you get your release, all of those wonderful feelings you have been accumulating will be gone. Don't worry because the drop is only temporary. The good feelings will return again with abstinence.

 

I crash really hard. I become an emotional wreck for a couple of days. The orgasm though--WOW.

 

@Blue00 and @Colton27 just confirmed what I tried to explain. This issue was also touched recently in @Lyriseitia's post about Mood Swings of sub. In this conversation @filltee supported us with some theory behind this phenomena (https://www.reuniting.info/node/4865).

My previous release was 66 days ago and so far my experience tells me that "this may continue for a while".

 

The drop can be rough
It’s one reason I hate cumming

In my ideal world I’d be milked every few weeks and not cum.

That said I haven’t found a good way to deal with the drop. So I’m curious if anyone has as mine gets worse and worse

 

This is my experience and wish also.

 

I have not experienced the drop for over 30 months and I's starting to feel as though I have forgotten what thats like. Nor of course have I had an orgasm in that time. My Lady assures me that I have no need to concern myself about either orgasms or the Drop.

I know her well enough to not voice or write any speculation as to what that might mean.

Althought there are not that many connotations I shall be keeping my thoughts to myself

 

This. Exactly. At least for me also... It is incredible. Unlike any orgasm you've ever had. Whole body shakes, screaming, mess. As others have said, volume is no more. You'll be incredibly sensitive, so if you don't want to blow in 5 seconds, i suggest a condom... or three.

 

Exactly. I feel extremely down when I had an orgasm. So I'm glad my mistress/wife/lover decided that I only get ruined ones and only when she feels the need. So I get more energy to serve her besides a full time job, two autistic teenagers a part in house keeping and we have just moved. I need the energy to complete anything.

 

We are over 6 months in our FLR. We’ve been vanilla so long prior that @LadyL still feels “obligated” for my orgasm. Hopefully, she will start ruining or when she feels the need.

 

My wife/lover/mistress has the same problem but she read some of the posts here and we had a few good talks about it. And now she is convinced and she loves the positive effects. So I hope you will get to that point soon.

 

In answer to your question OP; as you can read above my husband @TheRealAdam says it feels like the best cum ever for 10 minutes, and after that it's a void of sub drop and depressive feelings which is why he doesn't want to orgasm at all anymore.

So it probably won't be as good as you expect it to be.

 

I think there are two prevailing views on chastity and orgasms.

One is sex-positive: orgasms are great and connecting between two partners. Forcing an orgasm or "taking one" is thrilling and empowering for her and a peak experience for him.)

The other view is regressing - departing from the him-her bond of chastity and the continuing buzz of being chaste.

Now to answer your question directly. Time in chastity does not determine the intensify of my orgasm. But, there is real connection between no stimulation for 6+ days and her controlling the action. In these moments, she is exercising Goddess-like powers and influence. Sometimes it is so overwhelming and might I say "brutal," that I want to reach out and stop her. It never seems fair when its happening.

For me peak orgasms combine my needs, her dominance, and the power and depth of our connection in the moment. She is the only pathway, has all the control, and things have reached a point of no return.

For me, no orgasms are "bad" but sometimes they are forced out quickly and efficiently. In these times, I sometimes feels like a barn animal undergoing a procedure. That would be a big kicker, and long period of chastity followed by surgically-forced, quick, orgasm. In this case, chastity is better in terms of intensity and feeling.

 

My Lady said that with respect to her obligations as my Key Holder and Mistress she does feel obligated to control my orgasms and erections.

She does however very strongly feel that she is in no way obligated to let me have another of either nor does she feel obligated to consider whether or not I will be allowed another of either in the future.

As ever she says these things which tell me nothing. Not that I'd want to know.

 

Really depends on the device. I have two very short cages. One is an open design but super short. Just having an erection is a huge thrill. I find after a long lockup (over 1 week) it is best to keep the right on as it helps prevent everything just going limp. Going a long time without a proper erection followed by a huge boner is a fantastic feeling. The sex part not as much, kind of hurts a bit to orgasm with the ring on and the 'drop' feels really rought.

i have another device I rarely wear that is a closed design. There is literally no sensation for the gland part of the penis while locked up. After release it is so super sensitive (I wonder if that is what uncut men feel) and the sex is mindblowing. Unfortunately the closed design really is a pain to keep clean and keep from being smelly.

 

I remember the last time i was allowed an orgasm after a long period of being locked up.
It was around a month or so and it was actually kinda almost painful. It still felt good but the initial "eruption" didnt feel good at all.
I have been locked now for about 2 months without ejaculation and actually getting worried about the pain when and if i am allowed to cum again.
I wonder how worrying about the discomfort of cumming will affect the experience.