first lock up what to expect?

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    After much thought, i have agreed with my mistress to go into long term chastity. I’m 21 years old in the prime of my life, but my fantasy is too strong to fight. what should i expect (physically, emotionally) the first couple of weeks?
     
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    I wouldn't recommend going straight into long term chastity. It's unlikely to be a success and could put you both off for life.

    There well be problems of chafing and discomfort. You may find sleeping difficult. Hygiene can be an issue. You're 21- your horniness levels are going to go through the roof.

    Sorry, I don't want to sound negative, but take your time. Try it for a day. Then a few days. Build up. Practice. Get used to it.

    And most of all, enjoy it
     
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    I think you should get your age right first.
     
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    I suspect he meant get your cage right first.
    If it doesn't fit well, you won't be able to wear it for long and you may be injured.
    Your body will adjust in time and the size that fits well will change.
     
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    I'm impressed you have a mistress at 21. I wasn't nearly that advanced (though I did bang just about anything that moved). Good advice above about working your way into it. If the chastity is part of submission to the mistress, there are other ways you can show your submission outside of long term lock ups.
     
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    No, I think spider meant 'age'. He says he's 21 in the post, but his profile says 23.
     
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    what kind of cage ate you going to start off with?
     
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    I would suggest trying self control to start. This is how I started, and spent years perfecting, before even thinking of full time caged Chastity.

    At 21 or 23 or however old you are, I couldn’t go a day without cumming.
    So start with a day, no cage, and no cumming.
    Then start again, go 2. Or 3. Try edging. Experiment completely.

    Then if you decide a cage is the next step, then go 1 day caged, then overnight, then restart and try for 2 or 3. But be warned, it’s not easy.

    Good luck to you and your mistress.
     
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    There you go. Glad to see someone was paying attention.. lol...
     
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