Hi CM! My Queen and I are fairly new to chastity, but have been loving it! I ran across it a few months back and couldn't get it out of my head. My wife and I have always had a good relationship and above average communication, so I brought it up to her and she thought it sounded fun, so we 'plunged' into a cb 6000s in September, and really enjoyed the rush and the fun! My wife is a successful professional, but had always had issues feeling respected in a male dominated field. She never really took control in the bedroom either, and I hated being the one who always initiated (it's nice to feel desired!) I thought introducing chastity into our relationship might help her in both situations and, thankfully, I was right! It's been about 2 months since we started playing and I've been locked almost that entire time, except a couple of weekend days and for some play time. My Queen began to suggest and now is starting to demand t/d, oral, massages, etc. All of which I am happy to oblige! She has complete say in unlocking, teasing, and cumming and she is very generous in those! Since chastity is always more on my mind (or literally on me), I have researched things to try and given her suggestions and let her run with them. I have always been one to make sure that my queen gets hers, even before chastity, so being locked up isn't so much improving her experience in the bed, but it changes the Dynamics of our intimacy. For example, she doesn't have to pay her cock attention at all, or she can just pull her cock out and play with it without getting all hot and heavy! She is begining to understand that I am okay with denial and no reciprocation and that it doesn't hurt me. This is allowing her to quickly become more demanding and I love it! Thanks other day, we were discussing our last teasing session and our relationship since we started playing, we both enjoy the way it focuses my attention on her, I enjoy the euphoric state I am in when I am denied a while, and I said that I don't want to go back to the way it was. To my delight, she said "oh, I'm not planning on stopping!" Can't wait to see what the future brings!