First day of "real" chastity! Hopefully many more to come.

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    It's been a little while!

    Life has been complete chaos the past 6 weeks but has finally settling down. We've made some major improvements in our lives, both inside and out of the bedroom.

    She's opened up so much as a Domme, over the past 2 weeks or so. A number of life situations we've since resolved had her feeling as if she couldn't be the Domme I deserved, and made her feel uncomfortable and disinterested. I can see a huge change in her recently both in her interest in topping and her general happiness.

    I'm having fewer orgasms than ever as she explores herself as a Domme. I'd mentioned this in a previous post but we talked about getting away from the idea of either of our orgasms being central to a positive sexual experience. We're trying to focus more on having kinky/intimate experiences. And if she wants an orgasm that's great, if she doesn't that's great as well!

    We're doing weekly date nights where we can take turns picking a kink topic. Then we spend the evening hanging out with the intent to, at some point, focus on that particular subject. She feels this is a more comfortable way to introduce new aspects into our sex life. After we focus and perfect we can incorporate them into our more regular sex. :love:

    This week was ruined O's, which have until recently been a total mystery to her. We're still practicing but honestly her new enthusiasm for trying these things means so much to me I almost want need to cry.

    She's expressed an interest in reading some of the tumblrs I follow and even watching porn with me that I enjoy. My entire time spent doing D/s with her has felt as if she were doing me a favor and that while it wasn't a burden on her, she simply wasn't very interested. Something's changed, for the better, and I'm so excited to see where we take each other. And also a little afraid. ;) But mostly excited!
     
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    Quick update this morning. I've decided I want to go 24/7. My KH is enthusiastic about this.

    I managed to get through the night and probably woke up 5-7 times. Not terrible, all things considered, but it's much less sleep than I normally get. I don't have to be back in the office until Monday though, and I'm taking this as an opportunity to see how accustomed I can be. :)
     
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