First Anniversary Surprise

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    I have to agree with lockednloaded, my little cock started straining in my CB3000 as soon as i started reading Mistress Kate's words, even more strain when i got to the part about Mistress Kate's friend playing with Her subbie and then a real pull on the CB cuff when i got to Mistress Kate having made enquiries with an escort agency......please keep us informed Mistress Kate this is so thrilling to read.
     
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    Bless him ! He only suggested last night he come up witha list of Anniversary forfeits himself - as he didn't want to do any of my 3 ! I let him do me his list which was vry interesting - the expected list of cross-dressing ideas together with one or two I hadn't thought of ! I told him my only concession was that his first treat after the Anniversary he can choose one off his list - then we'll both have had one off our respective lists - can't be fairer than that can I? He's still not decided but did ask what my friend would be allowed to do to/with him. I'm afraid I was a terrible tease & said if she was good enough to do it for us it wouldn't be right to start imposing restrictions on her !

    I really think this is the most fun since we started 12m ago !!
     
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    Mistress Kate you are really getting into this arent you, its suprising how much fun you can have with it if you let your guard down enough. :confused0068:
     
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    Decision finally made ! Not before he had said that he really wasn't happy with any of them because all three options would lead to someone he knew finding out about our lifestyle. I told him that, if he chose the option of me getting in another man to play with me, then it wouldn't be someone he knew and he plumped for that choice - not with much enthusiasm it has to be said !

    I'm quite excited about it. There is a guy who works at the gym I go to who keeps asking me out for a drink and, although he has a reputation for quickly moving onto new partners, I still don't think it would be fair to go out with him & bring him back for this purpose. I think my only real option is the escort agency - the guy there seemed to have no problem when I told him the situation - said it is not unusual ! It's costly but it's a one-off and at least then there should be no complications and he is being paid to do what I want him to and I can then see how Cobweb is reacting to it before deciding which way it should develop.

    I want the tension of the evening to gradually build for him & I'm thinking along lines of getting Cobweb to cook & serve us a meal and possibly then run us a bubble bath before securing him in a seat with a view of the bed and keeping him waiting while we play in the bath. Surely that should prove a mind-blowing Anniversary night for him - and hopefully there'll be something for me too !
     
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    Magnificent, simply magnificent....
     
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    What a very nice anniversary plan - it's sooo naughty and fun! And it is cobweb's choice - he did ask for it. I see no choice but to give it to him and enjoy it. What Fun!
     
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    If it was being done to me by my Mistress i wouldnt know whether to CREAM or SCREAM!. I cant imagine being tied to a chair and being made to watch it unfold and not be able to stop it. Well we did ask to be dominated by you but WOW ..........:anim_37:
     
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    A cooked at home meal w/ N.Y. Strips and a good bottle of wine $45.00
    Hiring a male escort for the evening $200.00(?)
    Seeing Cobwebs' expression at being a cuckhold PRICELESS

    You go Mistress Kate :happy0030:

    Rachel
     
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    paying for his therapy sessions afterwards ..........................expensive:anim_39:
     
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    That would not be the one I chose! It would have had to be your friend coming around, even with the risk of our lifestyle getting out.
     
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    Mistress Kate, i am so glad Your boy asked You to spend time with another man, he clearly wants to be Your cuckold even if he says differently.

    I have followed Your post closely and was so hoping he would choose this option, You must feel Your power over Your boy growing and i suspect Your boy will feel his submission to You increase at the same time.

    By giving him options You have allowed him to make clear his 'wants' without the embaressment of asking to be Your cuckold. I am so looking forward to the build up to Your night with another man.
     
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    I thought like Hagan that he would almost certainly go with the option of having my friend 'play' with him but I don't actually think his choice was made sufficiently enthusiastically for him to have a fantasy to be cucked. It's a good tease though telling him that he would rather have me go with another man than be man enough to enjoy a session with my friend !

    He asked who it would be and I have said someone from the gym - I just think it raises the stakes a bit rather than telling him a male escort which he probably wouldn't see as threatening. When I was putting the three options to him, I thought this one would be his least likely choice and I do want him to go through the experience really thinking about what he has done.

    I don't think there is any part of him that is looking forward to it - certainly doesn't give me that impression - and I think he might still believe I'm bluffing. I can't say that I'm not nervous about it myself - and how Cobweb will react afterwards - but I'm determined to go through with it. He has frequently suggested that I could be harder with him than I am - not sure though that this was quite what he had in mind !
     
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    When the moment arrives, you'll know exactly what to do... But, I do think you should be most concerned about what you want when the evening arrives and less worried about cobweb - this is the option he selected. Put him in his frilliest panties, give him a front row seat and just enjoy yourself. The more you enjoy it, the better it will be for cobweb.
     
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    Well Mistress Kate you can keep the introducing your friend option for your 2nd anniversary, and maybe not give him the choices that time :)
     
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    Thanks for the good advice Miss D. I am determined to enjoy myself - hadn't really decided about the panties - because although he loves it, it's not really my thing. I guess it could heighten the embarrassment though - in front of the escort !
     
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    Mistress Kate part of me wishes that you were my Mistress and then another part of me would be crapping myself if you were. I hope that even though this is something that subbie thinks will be a turn on big time that it doesnt have a longer more negative effect in the fullness of time. I really wish you both well and hope its just me being overly nervous!.:anim_39:
     
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    Didn't go quite according to plan !

    Cobweb did a great job of getting & serving the meal and I was really enjoying myself. Tom - the escort - was not much more than half my age and was muscular, tall and good looking not to mention a great conversationalist. It was't until after the meal, while we were finishing our wine, I felt there was suddenly a bit of sexual chemistry there - he got up to go to the toilet and, as he passed behind me, rubbed his hands down the tops of my arms and I was instantly turned on. I can now understand what women get out of cuckolding - although I love Cobweb to bits and wouldn't want to be with anyone else on a permanent basis, his sexually submissive nature doesn't make him a confident lover and it is me that instigates most of what we do whereas Tom knew exactly what he wanted and seemed very confident and sure of himself - in fact he would probably irritate me if I was with him all the time because he was a bit too sure of himself !

    I still hadn't decided whether I would have sex with him and was waiting to see how the night developed. Not as I had expected - as it turns out - because when I went to get Cobweb to take him upstairs ready for us moving up there, he had done a bunk !

    He didn't arrive back until shortly after Tom's Taxi left, said he didn't want to discuss it & got up and left early for work this morning ! I'm not sure if I should be cuddling him or punishing him !
     
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    Did anything happen between you & Tom though?
     
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    Mistress Kate you have to feel for poor old cobweb. I cant even begin to imagine how he must have been feeling seeing all his fantasies coming to life(REAL LIFE)its true the old saying we all know so well on this site.. beware of what you wish for! please let us know either of you what happens next........???:scared0016:
     
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    We've now had the post mortem & Cobweb apologised for spoiling my evening. He says that he might have been able to face it if he was getting something out of it sexually but the thought of me going with someone else on its own isn't really a fantasy of his. He knows that I'm not really into him CDing or into humiliating him but says that if I had forced him into CDing and humiliated him in front of Tom, it would have done it for him - with me having sex being the final humiliation. I know we need to find common ground with what turns us on if we are to contemplate doing it again but that wouldn't be so appealing for me - as it was it was a really lovely evening without all the usual focus on Cobweb (which I am normally happy to do).

    I will decline to answer your question lockednloaded as what happened after his early exit hasn't been discussed between us & although he's not supposed to come to this site, I don't want to be talking on here about it when we've not discussed it together.
     
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    Completely understand Mistress Kate. :)

    Thanks for the update and I hope it all works out for you both!
     
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    The first rule of being a Domme is that playtime is meant to be controlled by you. If, you restrict your play to what he wants, then it seems to me that he's in charge - yuck! On the other hand, some compromise is good - especially if you get what you want and he gets all excited by it.

    Would putting him in panties and a sissy nighty and 'making' him watch be all that bad? It's the perfect opportunity to tell him how much of a sissy he is and how much you enjoy a real man - especially if you just had a really hard O. Of course,,, that whole scene might scare the hell out of poor Tom. Or.. he might get really turned on by it - you never know until you try...

    But I am surprised that cobweb bolted. I would impress on him that is unacceptable behavior in the future. Once it's agreed that he is to be cuckolded, then he has to accept it like a good little sissy... If not, then maybe you should just forget the whole thing and go back to a more vanilla lifestyle.

    I hope you got some measure of enjoyment from the evening and good luck with dealing with cobweb.
     
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    Thanks for the timely reminder Miss D. I know I am too easily sucked in to trying to please Cobweb. I also know he wants me to be harder - I think I find it difficult with the CDing/humiliating for two reasons - one because I still like to think of him as the stereotypical male in the relationship (but in reality he isn't of course) and two because he tries to steer me towards doing it and that's not what is supposed to happen is it ?

    Yes, I'm not sure how Tom would have reacted to Cobweb in panties etc - although I had of course explained to him what I was planning & he said he had done it before.
     
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    Please excuse my intrusion Mistress kate but possibly if you do something like this again you would be best to secure and gag cobweb before he has a chance to bolt and then that way he will at least have the knowledge that what happened was your doing and he got what he has always asked for the power to stop things and direct the scene taken away from him. I would personally hate my mistress to do this with a man in my presence but as you had already given cobweb the choice you should have had him immobilised there the first time you did it and then he would have to stay and watch.:anim_37:
     
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    How are things now Mistress Kate, have they 'settled' down a bit between you and Cobweb?
     
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