We have had a chastity device we have used since God know when but I’ve only been made to sleep in it once and then I got to take it off when I woke up. Apart from that, I’ve work in from morning til night quite often. yesterday, my wife said that I haven’t been behaving submissively enough and said I was in for a 7 day, 7 day without break lock up. I was nervous about the first night but slept right through the night and went off to work with it. I’ve only had it to work a few days so it felt weird. now I’ve “survived” the first 24 hours. I realize that is probably nothing for the majority here but for me it’s a big accomplishment. Now I just need to manage sleeping like this and going about my business for six more days until I’m let out. No idea for how long though. Any tips, suggestions and ideas are encouraged. Thanks
Lass dich nicht verrückt machen. Solange nichts drückt oder reibt, ist alles im Gleichgewicht. Die meisten haben mehr Angst vor der Eingewöhnungsphase, als dass sie schlimm wäre. Du konntest die Nacht durchschlafen, also hast du die erste Hürde genommen.
Sleeping with a cage on can be very easy, but in my experience it depends on what cage you have. I had a plastic one, which disturbed my sleep. This was because when I tried to get hard, there was nowhere for my cock to go, so it pushed the cage away from my body and put a huge amount of strain on my balls which was very painful. I had to stay caged for my barefoot goddess though, so just had to get used to it. Now I have a metal cage, which isn't totally enclosed. This means that when I get hard, my cock can expand into the gaps, and now I sleep right through. This means I can stay locked for my barefoot goddess without having my sleep disturbed
Just my experience but the first night of a long lock up is not the problem, it like day 3. You are prepared and relaxed when first locked. It’s once the day in day out routine triggers build up and then the anticipation builds. Your KH sits next to you or looks at you with a certain smile. Oh now the body is going to oppose the cage. Early morning erections for me happen on night 3. So tough to stop them.
Danke, dass war irgendwie sehr schön zu hören. Man macht sich auch ja immer Sorgen - dass es sichtbar ist, dass die Nächte schwer werden usw aber wie Die sagen, dass Schlimmste ist ja vorbei und es geht immer noch gut.
Thank you. I have a feeling frustration will start to build up after a few days. I’ve got over the hang up if it being visible at work now so it’s a work in progress.
Good luck. You may wind up needing some lube, or to get up and pee, etc as written in many other spots, but you will get it. Wait until she is comfortable that now she can truly control you without breaks. My advice: stop right now and smell the roses right now. These ARE the "good ole days" for you my friend.
thanks! I’m actually enjoying the ride so far, content about the fact that there is nothing I can do about the situation. It’s a magic feeling even though the frustration is starting to build up now.
24 hrs. A milestone on your chastity journey. Look forward to completing a whole week. Then a month...
You're lucky, I get woke up several times a night with my little clitty trying to break out of the cage.
Only 1? I have around 5 to 6 bouts with this.and it seems worse in the cage than out of the cage, they go away on there own outside I have to get up and pee or put ice on it while caged or they won't go away
We will se about tonight. Things have been ok until now, viz. 56 hours but now the frustration is starting to really build up. Does it get any easier as the days progress?
Indeed, you will adapt! I can still remember my first hour! A relatively large cage, Chinese made.. a raging boner when trying to put it on and after lots of “dead puppy thoughts” and ice, managed to get in. Then again a boner, almost cracking the tube in two halves. I took it off and had to recover for a few hours… after playing with it, trying to stretch the time, warring it all day, the first night / 24h was horrendous.. I hardly slept at all but after I managed, proud to have lasted my first 24h! After a couple of weeks I could wear for a number of days in a row although waking up at night only disappeared until a couple of months later. nowadays, I can go a few weeks in a row without any issues! I must say that I did change hardware over time a few times… Having the right type/fit actually does matter! maybe not of any help right now as you are already locked….
I’m locked in a holy trainer (original). It’s surprisingly comfortable but I don’t know how easy it’s to keep clean in the long run? Wife now talking about not letting me out until Christmas. She is having a blast, like a kid on his/her birthday
A holy trainer is not the easiest to keep clean but I think there is users in the board that have more experience than I do… I read tricks with using water spray-bottles like those sport drinks use and fill it with water and soap. It seems to be a very comfortable cage for a lot of others! I had a knock-off once but that didn’t work for me.. I ended up with steel. but congratulations on the next step here! Good to hear she is really into it Enjoy the ride!
you have had a great achievement. the begins from day 3-4 usually, when you really urge to release and find yourself helpless. sessions longer than that are at another level.