Finding the sweet spot ;)

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    I know the most important sweet spot…for my Queen any way :)
    This journal will be about finding my sweet spot while having my penis locked in a MCN Adaptus.


    After reading and enjoying many of the journals here, I figured it was time to add mine. These give such a great insight on how the chastity lifestyle is truly unique for every person and couple and have helped me over the last almost two years in our chastity journey. And figured maybe our path can help others starting out as well, and if not, it gives me a place to discuss this lifestyle that unfortunately can’t always be discussed in “polite (uptight) society lol, this is such an amazing outlet and community!

    I will add our history and chastity experiences leading up to this current trial in the next couple posts, but wanted start with our current events.


    About two weeks ago I realized I was feeling a little down, less energetic and just feeling blah, and was trying to figure out what was causing these problems. I was talking with my Wife to get her ideas on causes, and when I said it kind of started a couple weeks earlier, she sent a lightning bolt through me when she said “it’s because I’ve let you be free for a while”! It was then when all the different things I’ve read here on the Mansion really started to make sense to me in a real deep way. Seeing long term people here talk about how they don’t miss their orgasms or how they weren’t worth it for the affects it had never really made sense to me. Now I was understanding it!
    We had a very good talk and mutually decided it was time for some experimentation. I’m currently locked for 7 days, with some erections and piv allowed but orgasm free, and my attitude, energy, and overall mood are great! So, we decided to try this regimen out:
    1)Caged all the time, minus play time for Queen.
    2)An orgasm for me will be allowed sometime between 7-14 days, the Queen’s choice of course, with immediate re-lock.
    3)Orgasm day will be followed by a couple days of no unlocking for any reason, and if she notices an attitude, there will be spanking to help adjust
    4)After a couple months of this, we will discuss and make adjustments to find my “sweet spot” of being able to maintain the good energy, mood and being the best husband I can be and still be allowed orgasms

    I know the hardcore people here will want to say true chastity is to get a PA and never have another orgasm or something along those lines, but our reality isn’t near that, at least our current wants and desires including my Wife’s and I have submitted completely to her, so if we end up at that point, so be it. But right now, the reality of having 2-4 orgasms a month IS hardcore for us, as I’ll outline in follow up posts.
     
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    Our history….

    We met at the end of Senior year of high school, and all those cliche things like love at first sight etc were true for us!
    Within a couple months we dated and eloped, two 18 year olds knowing we didn’t know everything but knew the other person WAS the person we were meant to be with.
    And no, we didn’t elope or feel we had to get married due to pregnancy, not that there’s anything wrong with that….we were just truly mad for each other and wanted to lock each other down :)
    We’re quickly approaching our 30th Anniversary, we have 4 wonderful kids who somehow became adults seemingly overnight! We currently have our youngest daughter still living at home, she’s about to be 18.
    Due to a work injury, I am a stay at home Husband, I always tried to be helpful around the house with even the typical “women’s work” stuff, I never looked at those things that way, but you know, laundry, dishes etc.
    But the last few years, that is now my work. I also tried daily to make my wife feel like the Queen I viewed her as, massages, making food, fetching things for her, all the little things.
    So really, the whole chastity style of the man making the Woman’s life easier was already in place for us! Made for an easy transistion really.
     
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    The most important aspect of a chastity lifestyle is to do what works best for both of you and to have fun. It sounds like you’re doing that.
     
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    Our sex life and path to the chastity cage…..

    Getting married young, we were very lucky and grew together and not apart. Sex was always a very important and big part of our life, my Wife was very open about sexuality and enjoyed trying new things, was multi orgasmic for our first few years together, we had sex daily and multiple times when possible. Once babies started coming along, my Wife’s ability to have multiple orgasms changed, however she would still orgasm at least once during each time, although she started to O easier from clitoris stimulation as opposed to penetration when younger.
    As our marriage grew stronger, we branched out and tried more, some playing with others, 3 somes, playing with another couple, but once we were in our late 30’s and now in late 40’s, we stopped those activities other than maybe some flirting or a booty grab or something among certain friends :)
    When we hit mid 40’s, we suddenly hit a slump, we went from and average of 7-10 times a week, to having sex maybe 2-3 times a week. We both knew something wasn’t right physically, so got our hormones checked. This is around the time the chastity cage really helped us out, mainly me.
    We always played with sex toys, light bdsm, etc. I always was the dominant, and she always fought it as far as the bdsm stuff. She did not enjoy spankings, being tied up for extended time and some other aspects of it but tolerated it and would never say NO but we both knew she was not a submissive for sure! I had run across cock cages when I’d look for new toys and when my body started having issues, I thought maybe some changes were due. I knew I had a submissive side and knowing my Wife to be the strong woman she was and given her stubbornness when I tried to really dominate, the switch was really a no brainer!
    When I showed her the cages and said it might help me be able to perform better if I wasn’t expecting to perform daily, she loved the idea!
    The cage really did help, especially while we both got our hormones balanced again. I went on TRT and an Estrogen blocker, and that all has its own roller coaster of dialing in a sweet spot, too low of estrogen and the penis won’t work no matter what pill you take, estrogen too high, and your penis won’t work either! Really frustrating and a total mind fuck when you mentally want to ravage your Wife and nothing happens!
    After a couple years of ups and downs lol, I finally got dialed in as close as possible, and between the higher T and daily Cialis, I’m now ready to go any time the Queen wants it.
    In those couple years we’d use the cage and my Wife went along trying to find her way at becoming a Keyholder and getting her footing feeling comfortable taking charge of her property. We’d go a few days up to a couple weeks, I’ve done at most 28 days denied, with removal for her pleasure and cleanings, occasional release on weekend nights so she can feel my naked penis pressed against her as we fall asleep, which is always greatly appreciated by me!
    Now these lockup’s have been a learning curve of course, but they’ve always ended with her deciding to let me orgasm and that’s followed by freedom for anywhere from a week to almost a month. Penis swinging free, back to daily orgasms and usually around the two week mark she starts making comments about my attention to her slacking and she starts saying she’s going to have to lock me up again. I always remind her that she’s in charge and I’ll do whatever she wants.
    That pretty much brings us to the current experiment……and right now my mind has also gone from viewing the cage purely from a female dominance tool where I’d constantly long for the orgasm day, to now I’m viewing the cage as a tool to help me be a better version of myself for my Wife and for my mental health. It has really truly changed my entire outlook on having fewer orgasms from a punishment and a lost chance to cum, to this will make me feel better. What a crazy concept!
     
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    Good luck with it
     
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    Over our time of using the cage, chastity periods and my Wife learning to be okay with denial and dominance, she has either become more devious or has completely by chance, been able to dig into the little bit of male ego and penis pride I didn’t really know I had lol.
    The other day I did the rear brakes on her car and it was hot as hell, bolts snapped on a part and it just sucked. She was very happy I got that done that she said she’d let me cum as a reward later that night, I said because of the experiment we both wanted to try, I’d rather wait for orgasm. She agreed and I instead asked for my reward to be her on top for piv, she knows I absolutely love it when she rides me, I can focus on touching and kissing all over her beautiful soft round ass and her D cup breasts and won’t focus on my erection. She said that sounded fun as it’s been a while since she’s done this.
    Finally bed time comes and I start my nightly treat of kissing, licking and sucking on her pussy and clit while she relaxes & checks her phone. This has been our normal routine pretty much since using the cage. Once she gets fully aroused, she puts her phone down, will grab my hands which are caressing her body, or my head and I continue oral till she cums, or she’ll remove my cage or if it was already planned piv, my erection is already out and she’ll use me till she’s satisfied.
    So I had in my head that I’d get her ready and she’d then have me lay down and she’d climb on top, well I could tell right away she was ready to cum from oral, so I thought maybe she’d go for a 2nd orgasm while riding me. Instead after her O, she pet my head as she was coming down and I was kissing her pubic mound and thighs and said
    “Ok, time to wash her” , after I’m done with oral if we’re not having piv, I fetch a hot wash cloth and clean her up. So I knew then that she was all set and done. I asked if she’d like to try for a 2nd O by using me and she said no, but I could have a minute or two of piv as my reward instead, I was just happy to get in her, hold her tight, kiss her and enjoy the feeling of her pussy around my hard on! Well, I slowly slide into her and while I’m still holding myself up before settling in and wrapping my arms around her, she nonchalantly picks her phone back up, I thought she was kidding around at first but she just continued focus on the screen while I did my thing! After a minute or two without breaking her gaze, she says “ok that’s enough, take him out and wash my pussy, then you can cuddle on me”

    She does little things like this pretty regularly, and I’m left trying to figure out if she’s doing it on purpose to reinforce our positions in our sexual relationship or if it’s simply well placed coincidence.
    Either way, things like that stick in my head as my desire for her grows intensely every hour and day of lockup, I find myself craving to kiss every inch of her body and to taste her pussy more than anything, if I get to have an erection even, has become less and less important, and my desire to orgasm is there but far less important than ever in my life.
    A few years ago if she didn’t let me make love to her for 30-45 mins every night, or put her in multiple positions, and get to cum, I’d pout and be miserable till I fell asleep.
    It’s amazing to me that now I’m saddened and disappointed if she decides she doesn’t need an orgasm and just wants to cuddle and go to sleep. And yet I’m in a better overall mindset!
     
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    Got a treat yesterday evening, we had the house to ourselves for a couple hours after my Wife got home from work. I rubbed her feet and caressed her legs after helping her out of her pants. She laid on the couch and relaxed a bit before I tugged at her underwear, no resistance so I pulled them off and started kissing her bald pubic mound and she parted her legs for more, I gave her an orgasm, cleaned her up and we watched some tv before we had to run out.
    For some reason I thought I might be allowed an orgasm last that night but was soon to find out that I was mistaken.
    This was day 8, and our experiment is that I’ll probably be allowed an O somewhere between 7-14 days. So as we were getting ready to go to bed, I asked my Wife how she’d like to cum, she said “I already had one, don’t know if I want another tonight”, this disappointed me and I got pouty, not too badly but still I wasn’t happy with myself for this.
    While she showered, I laid in bed and tried to get my head straight again. We laid in bed together, her rubbing my balls a little and me caressing her arm and leg, she still hadnt told me if she wanted to play or not, so I touched her bare pussy and she slightly opened up and let me touch more. I asked if she would like me to go down on her and she said yes in a minute, so we continued cuddling and touching and she nodded for me to start. She had another good orgasm, I cleaned her up and laid on her chest while we watched a show and then went to sleep.
    I sent her a long text this morning and apologized for my pouting, I wasn’t sure she noticed but figured I’d better confess either way.
    I’m annoyed with myself over it but I know it probably won’t be the last time it happens. She is good at staying strong and won’t let me manipulate her, and she’s not afraid to punish me in different ways, so I guess if she did notice she’d have put me in my place right away.
     
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    I’ve been told that I’ll be allowed to cum tonight, it’s been 10 days, and been 5 since last erection was allowed.
    We’re both curious to see how much sub drop there will be if any, I’ll be locked back up right after and know it’ll be another 7-14 days till next release.
    This will be a good primer to this experiment, I’ll have a two week stretch of freedom and lots of sex for our anniversary and then a small staycation. Then it’ll probably be right back in the cage, with orgasms allowed once a week to two weeks.
    Hopefully we’ll have a good idea how this affects my mood and attitude
     
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    Started our night as usual, me sucking and licking my Queens clitoris. She was very worked up knowing she was allowing my cock to enter her soon, she had been having some great orgasms from my tongue the last 5 days, but she was definitely ready for cock. I was leaking like crazy while going down on her and was more than ready when she told me to get in, it was incredible!
    I’ve had multiple lockup’s of 14-20 days, longest have been 26 and 28 days, but for some reason, this 10 days had me feeling like a virgin again :)
    I had to change rhythm a couple times to keep from cumming way too early, my Wife loved that, and between having my cock in her and her bullet vibe pinched between us on her clit, she had a very strong orgasm.
    Then it was my turn, she flipped onto her stomach and raised her beautiful full bottom to give me access, I started to try and hold off but it turned me on to just let my orgasm go as soon as I felt it, I think I probably only lasted a minute and felt absolutely amazing!
    My desire to lock back up was gone, but after washing my Wife’s pussy, cleaning my cock, I washed my cage and locked it on, put the key back in my Wife’s purse and got in bed to cuddle her to sleep.
    I convinced her earlier this week to let me wake her before work with my tongue, she said we could try that Friday morning. I woke up around 5am and started kissing her hip that was facing up and slowly pulled her onto her back, she woke enough to open her legs for me and I very quickly had her moving her hips and moaning, she came in only a few mins and then still had time to hold me a bit before her alarm went off.
    A glorious way to get back in my subspace, making her cum while straining in my cage!
    Hopefully she’ll want me to wake her like this more often!
    Now another week or two before I’m allowed a cum
     
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    Great night, gave her head for her 2nd O of the day, followed up with an unlock, some piv and another O for her. She allowed me to sleep without the cage which is a treat!
    This morning I woke up early and started massaging and kissing her naked body all over, once she woke up more, she allowed me inside her with her bullet vibe between us for a nice orgasm for her to start our Saturday. I got up and locked the cock again and made coffee
    I’m so happy she has embraced this trial and sticking to lock and denial, usually on weekends she decides to let me be free and have orgasms too. But I believe she really wants to see if this schedule will be a great thing for us
     
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    Saturday afternoon we decided to do some work around the house, late afternoon our kids left to get some take out which left us with the house to ourselves. My wife was wearing a tee shirt style dress with no underwear all day just to tease me, and as we took a break from working, she laid on our bed and was checking emails in her phone, so I pushed her dress up and started kissing her thighs, she grinned while staring at her phone as I worked my way to her beautiful smooth pussy. It didn’t take more than a couple minutes and she was grabbing my forearms and moving her hips up and down grinding into my face while I sucked her clit, she started cumming very quickly. That was her second O of the day and she was feeling great.
    That night she said she didn’t want another orgasm which surprised me, although she had 5 orgasms between Friday morning and Saturday late afternoon, so not a huge surprise lol. She then said I could have a five minutes to take her from behind and could have an orgasm if I could within that time, it wasn’t an issue!
    Nothing happened Sunday morning unfortunately, but we did have nice cuddling, missionary sex Sunday night and was allowed another orgasm. She said to get back in the cage first thing Monday morning, her period started Monday afternoon, so I’ll be giving her orgasms by grinding on her while caged and her bullet vibe does it’s job.
    She starts a short vacation for our 30th anniversary on the 26th, so I believe I’ll stay locked till then.
    So far our trial on my chastity is working out pretty great, I’ve been allowed 3 orgasms in two weeks, my energy and mood haven’t suffered and I’m still feeling submissive and craving my Wife to allow me to do anything to her or for her.
     
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    Monthly visitor has made the last few days quiet. Yesterday evening I texted my Wife and asked if I could have some edging later, response was a simple, “nah”
    I’m only on day 4 but really starting to get horny as hell, and mostly to taste her pussy again! I was told this morning while she’s getting ready for work that her period should be done today, and that my tongue may be used tonight. I can’t wait!!
    I still have another week of lockup to go until her vaca starts and hopefully our sex-a-thon begins
     
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    Friday early morning I pushed the covers back and my beautiful Wife turned on her back and parted her thighs while I positioned myself between them, so eager to devour her pussy! This is the second week in a row, Friday morning pre work orgasm I’ve been allowed to give her, and she was ready for it apparently! Her clitoris seemed swollen already as I ran my tongue over it and then sucked it gently into my mouth, she started moving her hips and moaning almost immediately, this gave me an incredible rush and my poor little guy was trying to bust through the metal bars almost to the point of pain. I re-focused on the job at hand and in what seemed like only a couple minutes had my wife cumming hard, I slowed my tongue and let up pressure on her, and finished with light licks and eventually kisses on her sweet button. I cleaned her up and spooned her while she fell back to sleep for a while before her work alarm sounded.
    I said to her while she was getting ready that this should be a routine at least on Friday mornings and the weekends, and she agreed. I added that maybe sometimes we could let me out of the cage for some piv on those mornings. About two minutes later she stopped drying her hair, walked into the bedroom, looked me in the eyes and said something along the lines of “why would I let him in me when it’s been so great with just your tongue”, I was instantly straining again lol
    I thought I might get to have some piv or even just some teasing time out of the cage Friday night, but I was wrong. She wanted head again that night, no complaints from me, I know she has been having more intense orgasms from my tongue these last few months than at any time in our 30 years together. Not that I couldn’t get her off from oral before, but I’m guessing the power dynamic swap along with the added practice time down there, my skills have improved and she must have become more comfortable just relaxing and enjoying my tongue without worry about giving my penis any attention if she doesn’t want to.
    So Saturday was day 6 of no unlocks, no erections and an amazing feeling of lust and loving feelings for my Queen. Unfortunately a morning migraine for my wife de-railed my plans of morning oral for her. We did end Saturday with some hot tub time, an oral O and some incredible piv to get her a second O before I stopped, I was allowed to sleep cage free and enjoy the feelings night time erections. Showered this morning and locked away again.
    Still 4-5 days or so before I’ll be free for a while
     
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    Sunday…..as we got into bed, I wasn’t sure if she’d un-cage me for more piv of not, she didn’t say anything about what she wanted so I pulled down her underwear, cute grey lace ones that she teased me with earlier that afternoon. I went down and started my dutiful licking, still not able to get a read on whether my penis would get involved or not.
    Well, once she really started moving her hips I figured I was out of luck for getting an erection! As I was washing her up after, I said something like, I guess no hard on tonight huh? And she said well you can unlock and rub him on my butt for a few minutes if you’d like….uh hell yeah I would!
    She knows her round soft bottom absolutely drives me crazy, so out of the cage, put a drop of lube in between her cheeks and started rubbing my cock between them, we’ve done this as a way to let me cum throughout our marriage during her period or for weeks after child birth and it is always fun. But now she’ll occasionally let me do it when she’s denying me her pussy, and this was only allowed for a few mins to allow me a stretch and some edging. On my third time having to stop because I was getting close to having an orgasm, she said “you better not dare start cumming”, after a quick little whine I laid next to her, cuddled up and tried to let my erection whither away.
    She allowed me to sleep cage free again, and locked up first thing this morning after washing my cage.
    I am so proud of my Wife, she’s really come a long way at being my KH. She’s keeping me guessing, teasing, spanking, and enjoying just being worshipped while not worrying about her penis as much.
    She did say to me a day or two ago during a conversation about how this month has been going, that if she could have all the attention I’ve been giving and not having me caged, she would prefer that, however she followed that up with, “ but I know it doesn’t work without it being locked”.
     
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    Couple of things drove me crazy between last night and just now.

    Getting into bed last night I mentioned about how I was excited but worried about Locktober, 31 days straight would be a record by a few days for me. Her response was great…”well you don’t have a choice so get over it”

    Then I sent a text to my Wife this evening about how it’ll be strange to be free, to have sex with her and be able to finish every time during her vacation for our Anniversary. It starts tmrw when she gets out of work and goes for 6 days. I also said I’m interested to see about sub drop and if any depression or moodiness happens.
    Her response…..”who said that was going to happen? I never said you’d get to finish every day”

    All I can think of now is, be careful what you wish for!
     
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    I believe something has changed in my wonderful Wife!
    Yesterday when she got home from work, her vacation for our 30th started. I assumed I’d be unlocked at least through the weekend. She never really said anything about it, so I just went with it, figured she’s in charge and will let me out whenever she decides. So we had the house to ourselves for a while, I asked if I could give her head on the couch and she quickly said sure, so pulled off her pants and devoured her till she had a strong orgasm, thinking maybe when we went to bed I’d maybe get released for at least some piv even if she didn’t allow a cum.
    Once bedtime arrived, I jumped into bed wearing only the cage and cuddled up on her chest, hoping maybe she’d say something about sex or even giving her another oral orgasm at least….nothing, just cuddling and occasionally kissing a bit while we watched some tv.
    This morning we have a couple errands to run, all she’s said so far was that she can’t wait till later on we can relax and maybe look at my cock while he’s locked in his shiny cage!
    I’ve had one erection for about 20 mins of piv, and one more for a few mins of edging when she allowed me to rub it on her glorious bottom. Two erections in 11 days, this month I’m on pace to end it with the fewest erections and orgasms in the last two years of chastity play.
    My Wife’s whole attitude with sex and chastity has really amped up! It’s scary, but such an amazing rush to see her embracing it and making it hers, and knowing I’m happy serving her while she takes ownership of her cock. I honestly never expected that I couldn’t influence her and manipulate things about lockup, and the reality is now setting in and I’ve hit a calmness and just enjoying the frustration of having a straining penis trying to get relief.
    I’m so curious to know what she has planned for these next 5 days, I’m still fairly confident that we’ll have some amazing sex that includes my hard cock and some orgasms for me….but there’s a part of me that believes it may just be once or twice on our actual Anniversary day!
    Excited to find out my fate!
     
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    Thursday night, finally allowed out of the cage for the 2nd time in 12 days, for some piv. Went in the hot tub for a bit to relax, had a drink, we showered together and she gave my cock a good cleaning. Then to bed, she almost came from my tongue but she wanted cock, it had been 6 days since she had me in her. She had me lay down and she mounted me, I laid very still so I didn’t cum, once she was close to orgasm, I grabbed her tight and started to really thrust into her, she came within a minute of that and then I had to really concentrate to not have an accident.
    A few minutes of slowly thrusting and kissing while she came down form her O, and we were done, she decided I have to wait till Friday night. We’ll have the house to ourselves through Sunday night and I’m expecting I’ll be allowed a few orgasms in that time. But totally up to her. Our Anniversary is Sunday, but I expect most of our play time will be Saturday.
     
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    @Queens servant73 Congratulations on maintaining the presence of mind to avoid an accident while edging through PIV. It’s incredibly difficult but a huge step in your wife’s ownership of “her” penis and your orgasms. By doing so you’ve demonstrated that she can unlock your cage, use you for her pleasure, and lock you back up afterwards without worry. She gets her pleasure and you grow more desperate for it.
     
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    Friday, Saturday and Sunday were cage free, and sex multiple times. We had a wonderful quiet few days to celebrate our Anniversary! My Wife said a few things about being locked again, so I know she has truly taken control of our sex life, and this really makes me happy and keeps an excitement growing.
    Monday morning she allowed sex again and allowed me to orgasm as well, we agreed that I should lock up that afternoon and probably stay locked until at least Thursday which will start another small vacation when we’ll be alone through Labor Day. I got busy with a workout and after showering I forgot about the cage, later on I mentioned something about not being locked up and I got a look and scolded, she said I will be spanked tonight for not obeying. I immediately went and put the cage on. It’s such a turn on when she exercises her authority, I just hope I don’t get too many welts tonight
     
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    Starting the second mini vacation today, house to ourselves till Tuesday after Labor Day. We talked about chastity and I asked my Wife if she actually likes it or was mostly just humoring my kink. She said she has felt more arousal since we got more serious with lockup’s, and she said she absolutely loves the fact that she gets to decide everything with our sex life now. I told her that it is a great turn on knowing she has taken charge.
    I’ll have the next 5 days free and will get to orgasm 1-2 times a day, then things will get interesting. I know we’re doing Locktober, and she’s teased about No-vember and even going until Christmas Eve! I don’t know if I can handle that lol, but I think that’s mostly just teasing. She did say she wants to see how I’d handle 1 orgasm a week for a month, so we’ll see what the future of her penis has in store, no matter what, it seems I will be experiencing far more denial than I’m used to!
     
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    Yeah I’m screwed…well, actually NOT screwed!
    Technically my Wife doesn’t really start her time off till Saturday, she worked a few hours Thursday morning and had to work a few hours this morning (Fri).
    So I was allowed to be cage free Thurs while we did some errands, I assumed we’d be having sex and would mention things through the day and started to notice she didn’t really say anything back lol.
    Home alone, we were just watching some tv and she tells me it’s time to start kissing her pussy, she gets comfortable and removes her shorts and assume my position and quickly have her cumming, and then she cuddled up on my chest and we just finished the show. Once bedtime hit, we’re heading to our room and she says she probably needs to whip my bottom a while, I asked about being free, said I guess I have to lock up in the morning when she’s getting ready for work and she says, no get back in the cage now! So my mind is blown, I envisioned my Queen riding my hard cock to orgasm and then flipping her over and getting mine….instead I’m all of a sudden caged, faced down and ass up on the bed and feeling the sting of her wooden spoon, Scottish tawse, and two canes! What happened here??
    She proceeds to give me probably the second worst spanking I’ve had. With the house empty and no worries of being heard, she went to town on my ass!
    Then she cuddled me tight, both nude, only my straining cage between us. I told her I was shocked she didn’t allow me to have piv and an orgasm, she just laughed a bit and said it wasn’t time yet. And because she had to work Friday for a bit, I should go ahead and wake her up with my tongue, which is starting to become a wonderful routine.
    Since locking more over the last two years, asking for morning sex on weekends has mostly been met with denial, but giving her head to cum has been fully embraced lol, I guess that’s the life of a Queen!
    I asked if she thought I’d get to cum this afternoon / evening and was told she’ll consider it. I guess I better not get myself too worked up for it based on yesterday’s events.
    Her growing dominance and strictness is highly arousing, and a bit terrifying as well, but it seems that is the way this chastity game / lifestyle goes from what I’ve read here on CM.
     
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    Friday was incredible! Started with waking the Queen with my tongue before she had to get up for work, her first orgasm of many that day.
    After she came home we ran out for a while, going to a couple stores she wanted to check out, lots of flirting, ass grabbing, hand holding which is pretty normal for us but knowing I might be allowed to finally cum, it just amplified the electric feelings!
    She had talked about pegging me earlier in the week, it’s been quite a long time since the last and I was very ready for it. After we got home from errands she said I should go get prepared. We had a new jock strap style harness with a pocket for her Evolve bullet vibe to try out, and it was awesome! She took me from behind with me laying flat on the bed and said it was great to watch her “cock” disappear into my ass, she was able to cum pretty quickly for her second O of the day.
    After a quick clean up, I was finally allowed to penetrate her and she had her third orgasm followed by my first cum in 5 days. I felt incredible after being penetrated and then feeling her pussy finally.
    We cleaned up, had dinner, soaked in the hot tub for bit and I asked if maybe she’d like to feel one of her “boyfriends” when we went to bed. She told me to heat up the shortest one, it’s only about 6” in length but 2.25” in diameter. Once in bed, I started licking her clit and getting her warmed up to take that thick cock, I started slowly push it in while continuing swirling her button, she told me to give her more, so slowly I made that cock push in till it was balls deep while keeping my tongue in place, within minutes she was cumming loud and hard, deeper moans then I usually hear :)
    That was her fourth orgasm and she motioned for me to climb up and enter her, her pussy feels so amazing after she’s already had a cum, and she was going to try for another. We put her bullet vibe between us missionary and it took some time but she finally had a fifth orgasm and was spent! She turned over so I could get my second of the day, it didn’t take very long after holding off so she could get that last one.
    We both passed out fairly soon after, spooning her and telling her she is amazing, she fell asleep in my arms and I was so happy.
    My Wife used to be multi orgasmic when we were teens and early 20’s, but that faded a bit throughout having babies. She can almost always get 1-2 each time, but 5 in a day is very rare. It makes me so happy that she’s having fun being in charge of our sex lives, I know how lucky I am, and how great it is to have this kind of marriage after 3 decades!
     
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    Your wife sounds amazingly sexy and cool, you're very lucky to serve her. I think your love and service will only increase when she decreases the frequency of your erections and piv. Good luck!
     
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    Today marks one week cage free, the first 4 days of it we had sex a couple times each day. My Queen had 3-4 orgasms a day and I was allowed 2 per day, the last 2 days have been back to normal life and just having sex at bedtime.
    She said I can stay cage free till her period starts which should starting Fri, Sat or Sunday. It sucks starting a lockup at her period, we’ve done this many times, I still help her cum every night, usually by grinding against her with her bullet vibe while kissing her and sucking her breasts. I just really miss giving her head for those 3-5 days!
    Oh well, I know I better really enjoy these last few days of freedom. I would guess it’ll be right back to 7-14 days of locking then an orgasm and immediate lock again, just for September. Then Locktober……excited for it!
     
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