Several years ago, I tried to introduce my wife to the concept of FLR and enforced chastity. She was somewhat willing to play at being in charge, but at the first sign of things not going exactly as she expected, she dropped it. When she started in with "being in charge", I suggested that it might be good if she kept me in a chastity cage. Her reaction was extremely negative. "If you want to do something like that, I don't want to have anything to do with it, or even know about it. No way." I guess I had pushed too hard. I waited, and did not bring up the subject again - until last week. My wife is very sensitive to touch. I had not been very affectionate for several months, but one night last week, I became particularly affectionate - which she appreciated. I did some extra chores, and again was affectionate. After a couple days of this, I asked her if she would be willing to read about chastity. She is one who likes to read up on everything before starting on an adventure. Our vacations are extremely planned - with lists of things to see and places to eat - etc. To my surprise, she agreed to read a book that I could purchase, but she did NOT want it on her Kindle. I suggested two books, both of which had excerpts available on the Internet. She read the excerpts, and selected one, and then said that I could purchase a cage! I was FLOORED! I now have a cheap metal cage on order. I am to use self-control until it comes, but that's very much OK. I can hardly wait until it arrives. My wife has agreed to hold the key (we haven't talked about emergencies), but is unwilling to wear it on a chain around her neck. Does anyone have a good alternative? I never thought it would get this far...what a good issue to be dealing with!