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    #51 Jessica Alexander, Apr 11, 2018
    I’d at least make him go until he is begging and pleading.
     
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    #52 margarett, Apr 11, 2018
    who said he already isn't ? :D
     
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    #53 Jessica Alexander, Apr 11, 2018
    You don’t have to follow through but tell him that when he finally begs for a release that the cage is going in the garbage and that you are never playing the game again.
     
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    #54 margarett, Apr 11, 2018
    interesting idea! although He'd probably know it's only a bluff, I could not imagine not having Him locked now:)
     
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    #55 jim48, Apr 11, 2018
    I have gone 7 months with nothing other than an occasional prostate massage by my wife. After 7 months I was released and after the first orgasm in that amount of time felt very disappointed that it was over in just a few seconds. When your locked up all you think about is getting out. When you get out you think why couldn't I have stayed locked longer. I find it more exciting to be horny and frustrated than having a quick orgasm and then starting over.
     
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    #56 margarett, Apr 11, 2018
    thanks @jim48. that's another interesting and useful view:) So You're saying He'd actually enjoy it more to be still locked up than released?

    also, prostate massage. Yet another person tells me about that, and my BF always wanted to try anal ... since He's got no change to stick anything in my butt, maybe this will make Him happy?
     
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    #57 Chaste J., Apr 11, 2018
    Very true, there is no right or wrong way to do things! If the key holder wishes to let their partner out for sex every other day, or just doesn't want to deny them for over long periods thats entirely up to them. Equally if they want to go for longer and longer periods then so be it! Different couples, different tastes. As long as its what you both enjoy! Mrs Chaste has hinted (strongly) that she MAY keep me locked for a year, that's how we play! I find it scary, frustrating and exciting, but its not for everyone!
     
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    #58 Chaste J., Apr 11, 2018
    That's exactly what Mrs Chaste says! So it's :lock: for me until who knows when!
     
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    #59 Chaste J., Apr 11, 2018
    As you can see there are many options open to you both and a lot of fun to be had! I find Mrs Chaste orgasms are as enjoyable to me as to her! Sounds like you are going to have a great time experimenting! Just keep us posted on how it works out for you both!
     
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    #60 margarett, Apr 11, 2018
    Yeah, I also like it better when I cum and He doesn't :D

    You guys just can't get enough of me, don't You :D
     
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    #61 LesterBallard, Apr 11, 2018
    yes, there is an interesting point about when (if) you finally allow him to cum.

    The rules are still yours. So you can do it however you wish.

    It could be ruined. You could force him to do it in less than a minute (he probably could, after all that time, but what enjoyment would he get out of it?) In other words you can make sure it suits you and not him.
     
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    #62 Turma, Apr 12, 2018
    My wife enjoy, at this moment, to let her be oral and toy served. Are serving or short before her orgasm to penetrate by me and brought to orgasm. Because I could resist long she now disallow to gum inside.

    After that than using anal toys to hey milked. Could also be an option
     
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    #63 guest 2942, Apr 12, 2018
    your definitely a breath of fresh air around here. A female who "gets it" and is excited about chastity, very intriguing.
     
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    #64 WEC, Apr 14, 2018
    So Margaret you say you are having fun...can you explain what all you feel you get out of Chastity? How does his behavior change? What do you feel is in it for you? Anything that's NOT about sexual fun? Curious about the other side of a successful chastity relationship. My wife has locked me a few times but we've not gotten to the point where she feels its for her yet. Thanks!
     
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    #65 bethanise, Apr 15, 2018
    Welcome, Miss Margarett, can't wait to hear more about your relationship with your BF. I can see you're already getting advice and questions, so just wanted to chime in and hope you have a great time!
     
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    #66 margarett, Apr 15, 2018
    hey, @Turma, @ineverknew, @WEC, @bethanise - thank for the replies. I had a very busy weekend working on my project, and my BF was away with his old classmates. I'll write something more as soon as I can.

    For those who asked - He's still locked, and I don't want that to change until May, at least :)
     
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    #67 Chaste J., Apr 15, 2018
    The question is, which May?
     
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    #68 margarett, Apr 18, 2018
    Oh, don't get me thinking about that ... I want to let him cum someday... it may not be soon, but it'll happen. I just don't know when, since I'm having so much fun with Him locked:)

    Thank You, that's so nice:) I never expected that I'll have so much fun on this forum, it's nice to be here:)

    Well, just having Him locked and controlling His release is a big turn-on for me. And since we've tried long-term lockups, it's even more fun to push His limits and keep Him denied for longer periods. It's also a challenge for me - how long can I deny Him, before I break and just finally let Him cum? I don't know, but I'm about to find out :D

    That's it for now, but there are sure more benefits, some of them we already know, some we may discover:)
     
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    #69 WEC, Apr 19, 2018
    So what are the other benefits? What makes you say he seems under your "spell"? (sorry to pester...always looking for new ways to get my wife more interested...is all)...thanks!
     
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    #70 margarett, Apr 24, 2018
    well, there are plenty of them:D I'm a very shy girl, but ever since I put Him in chastity, my confidence grows ... and that leads to even longer lockups for Him, so it might never end :) I love that he cannot have any fun without my permission, and even if I grant Him, the fun doesn't have to stop when He cums. Quite the opposite, we can play until I'm completely wasted and satisfied, and that's the feeling I can get used to :D

    And He's under my spell, because even if He's really desperate to cum (and by now, He surely is) He's still willing to continue this lockup for as long as I want.

    Other benefits? Breakfasts to bed, massages, gentle kisses all the time, all His attention on me ... shall I continue? :D
     
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    #71 Chaste J., Apr 24, 2018
    Mrs Chaste is thinking about chaining me to the ironing board occasionally! By my balls! A long chain but still a chain! A good way to get the ironing done and have fun!
     
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    #72 margarett, Apr 25, 2018
    this sound fun, @Chaste J. :) as long as You stay locked, of course :D
     
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    #73 Chaste J., Apr 25, 2018
    That goes without saying!
     
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    #74 Rectrix, May 29, 2018
    Great share Allen.
     
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    #75 Rectrix, May 29, 2018
    There is no problem, you've got this worked out. The only issue will become your own little mischievous desires. My Miss and I frequently get up to 90+ days, but sometimes only make it 40 or 50 because she misses playing with him, riding him, get dirty inside, etc. But the point is it's totally her toy now, I'm there for her.
     
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