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    #1 margarett, Apr 7, 2018
    Hello:)

    I'm Margaret and I'm girlfriend of @yanmaslanka - some of You may know him. It was his idea to play this chastity thing couple years ago - and I'm happy that we do this. I was a bit scared and confused at first, but I like it now.

    Last year I wanted to challenge my boyfriend with 'orgasm free summer' - he accepted the challenge and I kept him locked for the whole 3 months :) It was great, but also very tough for both of us. I was feeling a little sorry for denying him for so long. After that his lockups weren't too long - 1,2 weeks maybe. But there is something very sexy in long chastity, and I couldn't help myself lately. So, on New Year's Eve i told him i want to lock him for long time again ... and he hasn't cum since then :)

    It was his idea to play chastity and now he's locked for over 3 months. And it was his idea for me to join this forum (finally:), so I hope this will also be fun:)

    Feel free to ask questions, and chat maybe:)
     
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    #2 LesterBallard, Apr 7, 2018
    welcome aboard, Miss. Your knowledge and dedication will be valuable
     
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    #3 guest 2942, Apr 7, 2018
    welcome. Hope you enjoy it here.
     
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    #4 SaraLovesChastity, Apr 7, 2018
    Welcome to you! i wish you luck in the development of this new aspect of your relationship. It sounds like you are off to a magnificent start!
     
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    #5 Chaste J., Apr 7, 2018
    Welcome to CM. How long are you planning this time or are you just going to surprise him? I haven't cum since December! Mrs Chaste has told me that she may make me go a whole year! I think she might mean it as well. Just over 4 months and I'm deliciously frustrated!
     
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    #6 sissybaby alexa, Apr 8, 2018
    Welcome Margaret. Good to see more Keholders here at CM.
     
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    #7 Locked In LoneStar, Apr 8, 2018
    Welcome! We always benefit from the KH's point of view, especially when they were introduced to this rather than already being interested on their own. Hope to hear more from you!
     
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    #8 margarett, Apr 8, 2018
    Hi there. I really don't know how long! After last year's 3 months lockup we agreed we won't do that again. It was hard for both of us, and I felt bad during this time. But my wonderful boyfriend was very supportive and said he doesn't want to dissapoint me ... so with his help we did this.

    Couple months passed and on New Year's Eve I told Him i want to try another long-term lockup. We didn't set any release date, but we agreed on about 3 months. It was about 2, maybe 3 weeks ago that I asked Him very nicely, if He wouldn't mind waiting a bit longer ... or maybe much longer. He agreed, not knowing how much longer I'm gonna keep him locked. And I don't know, either! I still sometimes feel bad about this, but He always helps me with a nice massage and some ohter pleasures:)

    Sometimes I want to unlock His cage and suck Him dry, but I love Him chaste and under my spell ... So I really cannot predict how long He has to go. Maybe couple days more, maybe I'll have him go for the whole year. I know I'd love to, but I don't know if I'm strong enough.

    Anyway, I hope You'll stay locked for the whole year. I think You'd be happy with it :D
     
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    #9 margarett, Apr 8, 2018
    And how She managed to achieve that? I mean not feeling sorry. I feel guilty most of the time, but I also love him locked... maybe it's good, cause otherwise He might never be unlocked again...
     
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    #10 Chaste J., Apr 8, 2018
    Sounds like your having a good time, and that's the most important thing. Enjoy yourselves! There's no need to feel guilty about keeping him chaste, us blokes really enjoy it, and get much more pleasure from pleasing our partners. Conversely if you want his cock then feel free!
     
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    #11 margarett, Apr 8, 2018
    Thanks @Chaste J. :) I do enjoy it, and he does too:) Sometimes I just want to eat cake and have cake at one time. Or perhaps I should say eat cock and have cock (locked in chastity) :D
     
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    #12 LesterBallard, Apr 8, 2018
    whatever you choose is fine by us
     
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    #13 margarett, Apr 8, 2018
    thanks @LesterBallard , but I was kinda hoping for some encouragement for one of options :)
     
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    #14 LesterBallard, Apr 8, 2018
    The pair of you seem to have an excellent relationship with great communication. That's the important thing. If either of you are ever at a stage of having doubts, then you'll be able to discuss it frankly.

    As for how long? The longer the better... :)
     
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    #15 margarett, Apr 8, 2018
    Well, thank You :) Although i'm having doubts all the time - that's the reason i joined the mansion - to talk to other people and gather from their experience. And maybe for something more - encouragement to keep this lockup going :) Cause I'm having a great time and don't want it to stop, but I'm not sure if I'm strong enough.

    And now You're talking! :D
     
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    #16 LesterBallard, Apr 8, 2018
    Stay strong, Miss. You've no idea how much he'll appreciate it...
     
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    #17 margarett, Apr 8, 2018
    Thank You:) I hope He will, cause I really want to be strong and keep him locked for long, long time
     
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    #18 Locked In LoneStar, Apr 8, 2018
    Embrace that desire! It's thrilling to see that side of the woman you love come out, even just a little bit. Some of the most amazing moments for me aren't even sexual, just times when she's reminding me of our arrangement or my place, or telling me when I'm going back in. That confident, strong attitude is intoxicating.
     
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    #19 Chaste J., Apr 8, 2018
    That's true, its the odd cryptic comment when your in company as well that's fun!
     
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    #20 jemima, Apr 8, 2018
    heloo @margarett and welcome to here and i hope that you like it here as well, curtsy.
     
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    #21 margarett, Apr 8, 2018
    I just want to thank everyone for such a warm welcome :)

    You people are so nice and supportive, I'm happy that I've joined :)
     
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    #22 guest 2942, Apr 8, 2018
    My thoughts are that you shouldnt be denying yourself. If you want to give him a blowjob, give him one, but just dont let him cum. Stop short and lock him back up. If you want sex, get him a strap on and he can pleasure you that way. There are many ways to keep him denied and yourself happy.
     
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    #23 Chaste J., Apr 8, 2018
    Exactly as above! You will both enjoy believe me.
     
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    #24 b2please, Apr 8, 2018
    Welcome Margarett!
    This is such an exciting thread.

    Margarett, I can assure you that MANY men wish they had a partner like you, that was willing to do some long term experimentation with chastity play. In my opinion, there is so much room for creative experimentation and learning -about what can be fun to play with.

    I'd love to hear more about what you refer to as "Being strong". Maybe there are several aspects to that?
    > Feeling sorry for him
    > Wanting to play with him unlocked for your own satisfaction.
    > Wanting to take a break for a while?
    > Feeling like it's mean in some way?

    My wife and I have played on and off with so many "chastity game" versions over many years. THere is no right way. And we have played some intense, FUN games that eventually sort of "Crash & burn", as we don't know how to end the game in a win-win way sometimes. I think that's often been my fault for having too many expectations and feeling resentful or abandoned. But that's me. I think the longest we've done a constant lock up is around 30 DAYS, and the longest Daily lock up about 60 days.

    But we often fantasize, threaten and imagine a year long predicament. She teases that she would find it fun and interesting, and be perfectly satisfied with all our toys and my strong chastity induced attention and motivation.

    Lately, she has been unlocking me whenever she wants access to have sex the way she is in the mood for. After sex, I typically don't want to be locked back up, and her reaction to that is usually either to let me get away with no chastity for a while, or make me agree to be locked up in the morning before my coffee. Again- no right answers- just our experiments.

    I often fantasize that she will FORCE me back into chastity right after sex, and that's a really hot fantasy for me, and sometimes she has done that. I never really want it at the moment, but it gets me back into my sweet, submissive mindset right away. We have done that a few times.

    I commend you on your long term lockup experiments! So hot!

    Hope you find new exciting ways to enjoy this type of play to the max.
    b2p
     
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    #25 CB Henry, Apr 8, 2018
    Aside from the when you started chastity with your man how would you describe you relationship. Were you then in a FLR was he submissive to you. What did holding his keys give to you. Was it just the power exchange or are there other benefits you have experienced. Has this then led to experimenting with other BDSM fetish areas of domination or just the chastity. What changes has you found in your boyfriend please. Is he just locked up or is he teased and tormented. When in between the two long periods of chastity did you always give him release or was there the expectation only for you to deny Thank you for your contribution
     
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