I've done my share of lurking and made a few posts, but I haven't said hi yet. So, hi! My wife and have been playing with the Phoenix Guardian for the past week. I didn't surprise her with it. Instead we talked about it for a few months prior. Her reaction has always been curious and positive, and now that we have the device, she's certainly getting the hang of the keyholder role and we're both really enjoying it. We're mostly interested in the power exchange and tease and denial aspects of chastity play. With all due respect to the sissies out there, feminization isn't our thing. While I don't consider myself anal retentive, I have collected some pet peeves. Most relevant is the use of the word chastity in place of the phrase chastity device/belt/etc., which really bothers the crap out of me. That said, I actually do get along very nicely with people and don't mind random PM's here and there. I look forward to sharing my experiences and reading yours! I should also mention that despite my current avatar, I'm not a fan of Pokemon. LightningRat happens to make a good handle and I find the avatar frankly appropriate for the likes of Chastity Mansion.