Hello everyone Much like others I have been looking through and seeing how others have incorporated chastity into their lives. I am a 40 year old male who has no idea how the idea of chastity cane up in my life. Perhaps it was a search online about BDSM that led me here but I am glad it happened. I asked my girlfriend her thoughts on the subject and then decided to order a device online. Tried plastic, silicone and then ultimately steel. Found a wonderful fit and security in steel. We have played around with the device for the last few months and haven’t committed to anything too serious yet. She has increasingly become comfortable with chastity and I believe it will go to a new level in the new year. I am taken advice from this site and tried to be as patient as possible. Hope to learn everything I can and see where this journey takes us. Look forward to talking with everyone here.