After several attempts resizing and dollars, I think I finally have the proper sizing for a Lori 8c for 24/7/365 wear but the longest I've gone is about 63 days. It has only been 12 days but it seems to fit right. Here's the thing, Wifey's key management is not the best due to her increasing asexual tendencies over the last 20+ years. For example, I had bought a combo lock box but she forgot the combo and I don't know it. So today, I gave her the key from her hiding spot to leave at work in her desk drawer. That way after my begging and whining she won't have the key available to give me a HJ. It will need to be a deliberate action on her part to plan a release for me. I love my wife and I just want her to participate in any aspect of something that resembles a sex life. I think this could be a solution that she could grow in to. Anyways, the stage is set and I have no idea how I'm going to handle zero access to my cock for an unknown period of time. Lori, you sure do build a damn good device, thanks!
Good luck. I'll be following for any updates, as I'm in a similar situation. After my wife had our baby, she has had no interest in sex whatsoever. We are just beginning our chastity lifestyle together, and she said she willing and happy to play along, but has not really taken initiative. My Lori 2b should be built any day now, 4 month wait so far. Again, good luck.
good luck. I hope it works out for you, but in the end you can't force people to be interested in what you are.
Mine is interested but doesn't seem to be probably due to stress from work and our bills and stuff. It's kind of hard because sometimes it doesn't feel like tease and denial it just feels like straight up being ignored.
Good luck! From experience however, be patient and realise that what you think might work to introduce to chastity to your relationship will probably never even cross her mind. Be patient with her, ask her to try and build Into it slowly.
When i was first locked up I went overboard on doing all kinds of nice things for my Wife. Massages, little gifts, I took care of all the chores, we did anything She suggested, I was very attentive and loving without pushing for sex. She noticed! and when She asked what had got into me I told Her it was the device. She never wants to go back to the old me and demands these things from me more and more. Add the fact that i confessed to jerking off to porn all the time and wasting that energy and that fact that She knows I could never cheat. Her love for the power She has over me grew from there.
Well so far so good with this fit. It doesn't feel like tolerating having steel incarcerating my penis but I will wait at 90 days before considering a review of getting the right fit. I never imagined that I would beg my wife not to allow me to cum during an HJ. HJ's on an irregular basis is the most action that I can hope for. Being that I think she is asexual I always accept anything sexual from her.
Recognisable!. Chastity, which for me was mainly mental during the past 8 months, might become now more physical as we have just ordered my first custom cage. My new cage, the MCN Contender, will be delivered with a high security lock. This cage can be locked and secured with a tagged/numbered wire. So, my love should not remember the code of any lock box, neither she should remember all day where the key is. Due to her work she prefer to use any of her "free place" in her brains to deliver her outstanding performaces (which I admire), rather than thinking about my key. Soon, she will see my secured cage every time when I am naked (at least two times a day) and "cut the wire" when it is her wish at that moment. The tool for removing the security screw should not be hidden in particur, or should stay with her all the time. The locking tool could be in an easy place like the drawer next to her bed. This avoids that she should be "thinking about just the key all time". Although my love is far away from being a-sexual, before chastity our sex drives were substantially out of sync. By moving into this new lifestyle, where we have still a way to go, at least our sexdrives becomes more synchronised. This due to possitive effects of my chastity. It improved the quality and not the frequency of sharing our feelings, intimacy etc.