Fifth year in

Well thanks! That’s so nice to hear. You know, I have thought about ending the blog, not a crazy amount of followers, and seems like I’m just talking to myself sometimes lol. Then I will get a comment or question from someone that reads it, and reaffirms why I started it and why I keep doing it.

Have a great day

 

Another chunk of idle thoughts, and pointless self realization about being in chastity
https://suddenlysubbie.wordpress.com/2021/03/13/i-dont-know-what-i-want/

 

Thanks a bunch!! You know when (my girlfriend at the time) my wife and I started this and I started a blog to kind of vent and articulate what I was feeling, I did it because there were so few actual couples talking about what we were doing.

I found a few, don’t get me wrong, but most were entirely professionals, with erotic books for sale.

I am truly happy, when any of it helps or entertains a couple or someone.

 

Thanks for the blog support, surely appreciated.
As for how I deal with them? I tried sports bras, ace bandages, regular bras, but lastly I settled on not giving a shit what anyone thinks. I wear Hawaiian shirts in the summer and a vest in the winter. Point is, my wife loves me, and if I get a few goggles or funny looks, it doesn’t really matter in the grand scheme of things.

Good luck

 

Wow thank you! Well I must give credit to my wife for that. You see I know she reads it, she gets an alert when I post a new one, and I try to spice it up a bit for her. She’s tough to impress being an English teacher herself.

Sometimes it’s a bit difficult to use creative license when she is usually present at what I’m writing about lol. It is a nice way to communicate with her about the nuances of my viewpoint without bugging the shot out of her.

 

A bit of an update, feel free to look around.


https://suddenlysubbie.wordpress.com/2021/07/06/permanent-chastity-both-true-and-false/

 

https://suddenlysubbie.wordpress.com/2021/07/13/i-needed-that/
Had some much needed fun this morning

 

https://suddenlysubbie.wordpress.com/2021/07/24/no-key-no-problem/

Some more journal material and fun.

 

Feeling deliciously subbie today,

https://suddenlysubbie.wordpress.com/2021/08/01/shes-in-charge-thank-goodness/

 

Another little look inside

https://suddenlysubbie.wordpress.co...dreams-wishful-thinking-or-just-pent-up-lust/

 

Trying my hand at erotic fiction. If she likes to read them, I’ll keep doing it and who knows, maybe others will as well.

https://suddenlysubbie.wordpress.com/2021/08/23/testing-chapter-1/

 

Another chapter in my attempt at erotic fiction.
https://suddenlysubbie.wordpress.com/2021/08/24/my-new-job-chapter-2/

Not much going on with us though. Was allowed an O on our anniversary on the 4th is about it. Our FLR has been mostly reduced to me in chastity and her getting foot rubs lol.

 

Starting to really enjoy writing this stuff. It gets the juices flowing so to speak, and basically since my wife reads my blogs, it’s like talking dirty to her. So anyway, my third chapter
https://suddenlysubbie.wordpress.com/2021/08/29/lesson-learned-chapter-3/

I switch the narrative from her to me and this one is back to her again. I think I write better from my own perspective, but imagining that those are her thoughts are a turn on…so I think I will keep alternating point of view.

 

Chapter 4 of the erotic fiction story on my blog. Real life still not catching back up yet. Mostly just foot rubs and staying locked lol
https://suddenlysubbie.wordpress.com/2021/08/31/wrist-deep-and-at-her-feet-chapter-4/

 

Not much going on lately. I have ordered some new gear but we haven’t played in awhile.

Normally I wouldn’t write anything here that I was worried about her seeing, her being a member and know I frequent this site. She doesn’t actually even check in here anymore (unless she does so as a guest) so feel pretty safe letting the cat out of the bag. I bought her a new key, and ordered another cage.

The key I made for her is nice, but it is rather drab. I modified an old heart shaped skeleton key, added the working end of cage key, drilled hole and added ring for necklace, and polished it up as much as I could. The problem is that this old steel doesn’t hold its shine, and becomes dull grey shortly after polishing. She loves wearing it and rarely takes it off, and as much as I think I did a good job, the material has its limits. I think it should be pretty and something that looks as important as it is.

We didn’t go down the traditional path with wedding jewelry. I was divorced for 2 years but still stinging from the financial repercussions, and I really wasn’t comfortable spending thousands of dollars on a ring again. She was totally ok with going cheap, in fact she bought both our plain steel rings on Amazon for under fifty bucks. Anyway, our chastity experience has been there from almost the start, and I’ve always thought that her key and my cage were more a symbol of our marriage than any rings we wear on our fingers. We got married wearing them, and for the most part, we don’t remove them.

So, I saw a key from a member here that looked very similar to the one I made. Except it was of a quality material, made by a real jeweler, and instead of the working bit of key exposed, it was hidden by a skeleton key cap that unscrews. So to everyone that sees it, it is a shiny silver skeleton key with a heart shape handle. Unscrew the bottom and my cage key is there. It looks pretty, it is real jewelry, and it doesn’t look like an old trinket someone put on a necklace. Can’t wait to see how it looks on her. I am a bit nervous about the overall length and weight. I don’t want it to be so heavy or long that it dominates every outfit or hard to wear. Worst case scenario, I remove the cap and expose my cage key reducing the length and weight. I hope it doesn’t come to that, as it is pretty as is.

My other purchase is a new cage. Nothing is wrong with this one, it works and fits perfectly. I however was looking for a change. Have noticed that I am a bit smaller now, and there is constantly a half inch of empty cage now. Yes I know it didn’t shrink permanently and would return to its normal size if left out of its container for awhile. It is however rarely out of its container, and the cage no longer needs to be so big. In fact I have been worried that it may be pulling on my piercing since the prong doesn’t move, and I am constantly smaller than the prong length.

I found a custom cage from a company I’ve never seen before. Odd, I would have thought I knew them all but I didn’t. They offered custom steel devices, made to order, with piercing options, even a hollow prong to pee through. Price was less expensive than rigid chastity, and time from order to delivery is 3-4 weeks. New cage has the same base ring diameter, but less gap, shorter cage(28mm) and piercing prong is up to 2gauge. It has an integrated lock, which I will ditch for the fairly high security lock that comes with the new key mentioned above.

So that is a lot of change here, new cage, new key, I sure hope we both like them.

 

Orgasm number 4 of the year was wonderful. Still looking to get back on track to our more kinky routines, but this was very nice!
https://suddenlysubbie.wordpress.com/2021/09/17/random-daytime-sober-action/

 

Just an update
https://suddenlysubbie.wordpress.com/2021/11/21/update-trust-vs-choice-big-o-chastity-myths/

 

Another update, dirty talking O number 6, and resolutions
https://suddenlysubbie.wordpress.com/2021/12/06/big-o-number-6/

 

2021 breakdown
https://suddenlysubbie.wordpress.com/2022/01/03/2021-wrap-up-some-changes/