Fiancé has become more Dominant

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    I introduced my fiancé to Chastity about 18 months ago and recently she got serious about it. She gets so turned on with me being locked up and now has become even bossier. Leading up to this I shared Tumblr posts with her what I find hot about the control.

    I'm 6'3 240 and she's 5'2 110, it's so hot having such a small lady being so bossy.

    Anyways since April she was only allowing me one orgasm a month... she did not really enforce Chastity everyday... she steadily got more and more stricter over the last few months, making sure I locked up, demanding body rubs, delaying orgasms, giving spankings, biting me, teasing me.

    Three weeks ago I was unlocked and humping her leg... I accedently went over the edge and came without permission. She was not happy, so she has not allowed me to cum till at least November 4th.

    About two weeks ago she went teasing, bossy, dominant mistress... she had me locked up and teased me like crazy. Then she made me write up a chastity contract with her before she would cuddle me some more.

    Aside from when I go to work I'm locked in my Holy Trainer at all times, I unlock at 530am and lock up at 3pm when I get home. Mon-Thurs (I'm off Fri,Sat,Sun and I've already been locked entire weekends and days off for months now, keys are in the bathroom mon-thurs and she takes them every Thursday night)... I lose my freedom at work privilege if I don't lock up as soon as I get home from work or if mistress allows freedom and I don't lock back up as soon as she tells me to.

    Anyways I'm basically locked all my free time now. In the contract I am to greet mistress at the door when she gets home from work and ask her if she needs anything, offer her a leg rub, I did not do it one day and she gave me a hard spanking as punishment then made me stand in the corner.

    She's getting quite comfortable with all her power... she makes me read the contract every day. She teases me, tells me she is not going to let me cum the rest of the year.

    It's different now, she's taking all the control... I've already been told not to expect more then 12 cums a year.

    The more and more bossy and dominating my mistress gets, the more I'm attracted to her... she just bought a leash so she can lead me around the house

    I let her into my fantasy and now there is no way to turn back, she has begun to love it... just tonight as we drifted off to sleep she was telling me she was going to take the vibrator to my cock cage the next time she lets me cum, and I'll be cumming like a bitch.

    Needless to say I'm a horny mess right now... im addicted to ny fiancé
     
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    Good for her... And you!
     
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    Just to be pedantic, she's your fiancée. You are her fiancé.

    And welcome to the forum, and to chastity!
     
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    She's begun teasing me relentlessly.. I only had a few hours of sleep last night because I was a leaking mess... then she gave me a spanking in the morning for leaking on her.

    I read about people being locked for weeks, months... the desire to cum must be insane... the level of horniness I'm at right now is high, I could only imagine
     
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    actually I have found that after a couple of weeks the intensity is still there but it can't go any higher. But ymmv. I'm sure it depends heavily on your level of teasing received. Also curious as to why you don't wear the device at work?
     
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    I have found that the more submissive I become, the more dominant my wife becomes, which creates even greater submission. It is a wonderful reinforcing cycle.
     
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    I mass produce food for multiple stores... the kitchen is not big enough to be wearing a cage with the amount of moving through the rest of people. I would be way to sub conscious to do my job, and I need to be able to do my job.
     
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    Ah ok. I just pictured a tight room with all of these people rubbing against each other all day lol. Honestly though I think your just being too self conscious. And I'm not judging, I was just curious. I wear a tube style device with a PA pin and no ring so when wearing jeans you can't feel it unless you actually grab the area and feel around. Obviously though typical ball trap devices are slightly more pronounced.
     
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    I bet you could wear it to work and nobody would notice....might be worth a try.
     
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    Is she a Member here? If not she should be!
     
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    She's been teasing me so much today... capped off by her wearing hot langere and glasses... she made me give her oral... she had multiple orgssms.

    She rode my face and told me "so you can smell me all night" ... she took the vibrator and rubbed it against the cage and my balls for 20 min or so too.

    I don't know what to do with myself... going to go back to bed and cuddle my fiancée, hopefully fall asleep but I'm so damn horny
     
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    I once wore my cage to work for 2 days and no one noticed, but my cage is only 28 mm.:(
     
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    Sounds like she knows how to embrace your chaste state! Lucky you, there are a lot of ppl on here that desire a powerful woman, and is seems you have one still growing into her shoes!
     
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    Holy Trainer is not an issue to wear to work unless it's a very physical one or one you're changing clothes with others.
     
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    Wearing your cage to work all depends on the kind of job you have. If you have to change cloths or shower with other id advise you to maybe not wear it to work. If you work in an office than I'd see no reason that you shouldn't wear it to work.

    As you become more comfortable with your cage it becomes more apart of your life and you'll find that you can stay locked up in public a lot more than you think. People aren't staring at your crotch like you think they are. It takes time and the confidence to go out in public but once you've done it it no big deal. I now wear my cage 99% of the time. It's only removed for short times when my Mistress wants it removed. If you say me at work or in public you would never know.
     
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    The power of a key at 5-2 and 110 lbs she can bring you to your knees with a simple Key.
     
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    True dominance and submission are psychological. My wife says that she has no need to cage me because she knows that I dare not touch my penis without her permission, which she almost certainly will never give.
     
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    The teasing is insane and she's being more bossy and strict then she ever has.
     
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    So, are you enjoying it?
     
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    The more my wife dominates me, the more submissive I become and the more she wants to dominate me. It is an exciting cycle.
     
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    She likes spooning when we sleep
    She takes her bum and pushes it right against her caged cock... then she wiggles her bum

    Every time I start humping she tells me to stop and I'm not allowed... she even adds punishments to enforce the rule.

    Turns me on so much... makes me more affectionate
     
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    Then she's doing things properly. Indeed she'd still be doing it properly if you did NOT enjoy it, but she could and did enforce it.:)
     
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    That sounds like it's just the way it should be (in my opinion :p) & your in for an interesting marriage. :)
     
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