I am also on FL on a pretty much daily basis. Many members here are members there too. These include all 3 present Admin (Jens is there s Starboat), others obvious! And I had a thought There was a period some years ago before Jens acquired this site from MW when CM members who were also on FL could have a hyperlink from here to their profile on FL. There was a special FL logo for it. This function disappeared for some reason I don't know. Could this I wonder be reintroduced? Joro
fetlife is a Canadian site abt they banned me because of some comments I made about US politics. they are a bunch of assholes as far as I am concerned. I loved the site because there were groups about just everything I am interested in,but the management leaves a lot to be desired.
Funny you should say that. I'm not impressed with the management either. I don't mix with them. But the site itself still has a lot of good stuff and good members.
FL is okay but some of the groups, while ostensibly interesting, are no use at all because the moderators have a tendency to behave like little Hitlers. It seems counter-intuitive to me that kinksters should be so anally retentive when it comes to rules and regulations. But that's just me. Show me a rule and I'll ignore it. Which is why I find the idea of submission to deliciously subversive.
I am a member of FL, but haven't found it to be a very useful site with regards to communicating or meeting new people. Seems like many of the members in my area join but don't check back to frequently. The ones who seem to take advantage of the site most are the operators of the areas recently opened adult sex/swingers clubs, looking to find and recruit new members. No problem getting in touch with them. I have found that it is a good site if you want to learn about and join other outside organizations related to a wealth of interests.
Remember that FL has a Chastity Mansion Group that was set up as a meeting point for Mansioneers at a time when this site had stability problems. Thankfully to the excellent work of Jens and Admins, that issue seems a problem of the past - but not bad to remind folk that it's there in case of emergency!