Females allowed or not?

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  1. Samir
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    We are in a limited FLR that I can say. Because here I have seen many threads talking about cuckolding and multiple partners women can have. We can never imagine this in our relationship. But I have seen many men also support this. Is this for real? Or just stories?

    So my only question is whether Females have the right to have multiple partners in FLR?
     
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    That depends entirely on the dynamic. And the agreed limits between D/s. Some women and men here are into cuckolding, some are not.

    Me and my husband are not, we're strictly monogamous to the point that neither of us even watches porn. We love being hot for each other exclusively.

    But there are plenty of other views on here. I wouldn't call having mulitple partners a 'right' for anyone, unless you previously agreed that with each other.
     
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    We too can't imagine doing this. But rhe question is, are Females allowed to do this in FLR or not?
     
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    She answered your question, what is allowed in one relationship might not be in another. It depends on the dynamic in the relationship. The only rules in your FLR, are the ones you set up.
     
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    If both people agree to it, then yes. If both people agree to it, the man could have multiple partners as well. Or both the man and the woman could have multiple partners. This is not an issue related to FLR.
     
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    So that's not applied to all. Got it.
     
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    I have read this somewhere that women can have multiple partners in FLR but men can't. That's why I am asking
     
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    Exactly.
     
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    For the record it isn't exactly about being "allowed" either. Yes every couple is different and yes every couple determines the boundaries of their lifestyle play. It is however more about choices and desire than being allowed.
    My BR and I have chosen cuckolding as it is a highly sexual mutually stimulating activity we both very much want and desire. If it was simply something I was allowed I am not sure I would want it. It is because of what it does to eroticise our relationship that causes me to enjoy it so much.
     
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    no it’s not applied to all, it’s how we work, but it’s down to the individuals.
     
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    Every couple is different, nothing is a requirement.... Communication and honestly of what everyone wants is the best option.
     
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    Understood
     
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    Yesterday my gf asked me about difference between FLR and Femdom and that led me to this question. And by answers above, I assume "allowed" term considers Femdom while in FLR both of them needs to be agreed on this matter.
     
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    Whatever but I can't believe in polygamy.
     
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    Me too
     
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    Polygamy is the practice of having more than one wife or husband. One husband is all I want. Cuckolding and polygamy are not synonymous
     
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    Isn't it the same thing?
     
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    No but they're certainly related
     
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    Polygamy and cuckolding are not the same thing at all. Cuckolding like chastity is an activity we engage in to enhance our sex life as we find it mutually pleasurable. Sex and marriage are not synonymous and based upon many posts on this site you can definitely have marriage without sex and certainly sex without marriage.
    Polygamy involves developing a relationship, dating, falling in love and eventually marrying and potentially having a family with multiple partners. Cuckolding involves a couple inviting another man into their bed for a sexual experience.
     
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    Only as much as sex and marriage are related. Can be related but also not related at all.
     
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    Mistress has unlocked me to be with another woman in a swapping situation so anything is possible with communication, agreement and trust.
     
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    I guess I'm the type who says that sex and marriage are related as well. Even if there's sex outside of marriage and marriages without sex.
     
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    There is a difference between polyamory and polygamy. Just like there is a difference between dating and marriage. And as I understand it, (not being a cuck but I understand the dynamic) cuckolding doesn't necessarily mean polyamory. It is what each relationship makes it, there are no requirements, it is what each person wants and desires to make their relationship work.
     
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    Exactly, polyamory may be where some cuckold couples eventually progress to if they choose to have a relationship beyond sex with their third and make it a relationship of 3. I suspect many cuckold couples leave it at sex and simply enjoy the experience and what it brings to the couple. I suspect however it is unlikely to progress to polygamy.
     
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