Female Worship

I love women. I respect and admire them. I marvel at their strength, but I do not worship them. I am not into worshipping anything or anyone. Just the way I am built. I am alpha to a fault. I cannot work for a man so I work for a woman. I need to lead the pack so even when I was submissive to my two ladies in bed, once sex was over, I ran the triad. The ladies always had a say and could out vote me 2 to 1, but they were happy with me deciding what to do and where to go. I am very easy going and always kept the needs and wants of my wife and our ex girlfriend in mind when I made any decision that affected them. If in doubt I always erred on their side. I have never done anything that my wife disproved of. At worst we always compromised. I never once said to do something because I said so. I am very nice to women. Still hold the door open to them and give up a seat when there are not seats for them. Most women still like that. I do not like to make a woman feel bad or angry. I just do not worship man or woman. No one is better than me and I am not better than anyone as far as being a human is concerned. Worship is just not in my vocabulary. I have known men who are very alpha, that worshipped their wives. You do not have to be a beta male to do that. Alpha males come in all shades. There are alpha males who do not feel the need to run the show. Does not make them less than a man, just a different type of alpha male.

 

I believe it is just about personal interpretation of terminology.

I can relate to both @slayergirl and @Vinny explanations that are to my feeling the same, only put in other words.

I adore my wife in the day to day and worship her in the bedroom (sexually), like so many others my wife likes me to be the man in our marriage and I do all I can to make her life and our marriage a good place to be.

The meaning in the dictionary of worshipping = "feel great admiration or devotion for" and also "to love, respect, and admire someone or something very much, often without noticing the bad qualities of that person or thing"

regarding the part "often without noticing the bad qualities of that person": in my case I would redefine that into: knowing the lesser qualities and to be happy with them as I accept we are all human (kind of: Don't blame, I'm only human )

 

well i love Ladys as well and if i had some money i wud do that but i have not. but i do try to be good.

 

Dear @jemima ,

Money is just one of the aspects to create a good place to be.

I'm sure you score on all the other aspects to make your relationship a good place to be..

 

My wife and I were talking about this a couple days ago and I wonder if this is a common concern for men in this type of conversation. I also feel I have an alpha type personality in my life outside of our home. It was originally a concern of mine that she might view me as weak or somehow less by wanting to submit to her this way.

Truthfully, in my experience, I think each gender is unique in their own way and one is not superior than the other. Maybe having a strong man that chooses to make his wife his princess (or girlfriend, lover, etc) is what really makes it hot for many women, Can’t speak for everyone but I know this is important to my wife.

 

There's good and bad on both sides of the gender fence.
My wife is the only woman I worship.
Everyone else is on a case by case basis.

 

Variety is the spice of life and thankfully there is always someone we can get along with and enjoy time together.

 

I think this is the same reason my wife has allowed this path to be explored by us. I had explained a few of my fantasies to her and the events that happened in my life as I was a young man have shaped my sexual life. I had to reassure her that I was all the man she would ever need and that she could put that worry behind her. Well, she did and had really begun to step into her roll of letting me server her as she were the one true Goddess herself. I think she likes when I paper her and help out more with the chores and just that I am more gentle with her. But she knows that if the time comes to where I have to defend her or myself Im ready to go down fighting if I have to.

I think though by her allowing this to happen because she is more comfortable with everything she has noticed that I have gone out of my way to for other women as well like her mother or cousin and her friends. Its not that I feel beneath them or subservient so to speak but I feel driven to make them all feel welcome and comfortable if I have the ability to provide that to them.

I hope to hear the words "My fairytale has come true" From my wife as well!! Congrats on yours!

 

Understood. I just view it differently but still the same. We have always put the other first which often makes it difficult to do the simplest of things like pick a movie to watch or food to eat. We live both separate and together. I have my interests and she has hers. She has her own friends whom she sees a few nights a week and I have my man cave. We try not to be together too much. After 44 years, we both need our space and alone time. If there is an imbalance of power, it would be in my favor because my wife wants it that way. She actually gets upset if I will not tell her what I want to do and ask her to decide. Long story, alcoholic abusive dad, growing up with four alpha males, etc..

 

My wife is my queen ! In all other aspects of my life I am a manly man , I'm a heavy equiptment operator. I go to gym and lift weights. There would never be any doubt to anyone that I and the provider and the protector of my family. Where my wife is concerned she is the only one I take orders from. If there is anything I can do to make her life better or easier I do it without hesitation. She let's me be me when we are togather.in everyday life I am tough and the type that can't be bothered.When I'm with her I can be soft and at ease . She let's me indulge in my panty fetish and supports and incourages my girly behavior in the bedroom. She keeps me locked 24/7 and likes being in charge of my sex.i love that she is in charge of my sex I love the constant reminder of her. I could worship her body all day and every night but it is her strength that keeps me at bay and makes me refrain. It is also her that helps me in my wishes to be denied orgasom. If it were left up to me there would be know way I could stop during sex with out orgasom but if I ask her before hand to help me that I just want to focus on her pleasure she will ask if I'm close and when I tell her she will stop and not let me cum. It is so erotic for me. She is such a wonderful lover and partner I don't know what I would do without her.