Female led relationships in public

My girlfriend "K" and I were in Chipotle last week, having dinner. We were talking fairly quietly, in those lowered voices where you can hear each other but no one else can understand when you're saying, and it was a bit noisy in the place since they were busy. I was being a little bratty about something-or-other, and although I could see she was getting annoyed at me, I kept at it. Finally she says, in her normal speaking voice, "If you want me to allow you to touch yourself this weekend, you better knock it off right now."

I immediately stopped misbehaving and said that that was loud enough for anyone to hear, and she told me "I don't care. I'll stand up on my chair right now, and say it again loud for everyone to hear, if you don't stop being a brat."

Needless to say, empty threat or not, I shut right up.

 

This sounds quite interesting

 

We went to a fine dining restaurant a while back and my Wife ordered all the servings including drinks for me and made quite a show of taking the check when it was placed by my side of the table. Usually I'm allowed to order but I never am allowed to pay.

A protocol that is now strictly enforced is that I'm not allowed to walk anywhere but slightly behind her. I have to rush ahead to open doors for Her.

 

My son this morning: I don't want to argyle socks to soccer.

Me: why not?

-Cause I will look different!

Me: Your Mom is wildly different and you love her. She's a far more incredible woman than all the other moms and she dresses like a rock star. Everyone pays attention to her.

- yah. that's true.

Me: Your dad is very different too and he's the best dressed dad in the group too.

-yeah.

-But I still won't wear argyle socks.

*******

Baby steps, people, baby steps.

 

One of the craziest coincidences happened to me yesterday. I am the boss of my company. We are currently hiring and when I went to the front to get the candidate from the lobby, this stunning woman came towards me and the first thing I noticed was a key on her necklace. In my mind it was definitely to a cage. I turned into my submissive self and was kind of stumbling all over myself. I opened doors (I normally do), I showed her the way, etc.

Back in the office, I noticed she had a tattoo on her left wrist. It was a lock and key with roses around it. It had initials but I couldn’t make them out from where I was sitting. As she was leaving, I stood behind her getting up and pushed in her chair. I then got the door for her and she said to me “You know how to take care of a lady, just like my husband” and rubbed the key.

I am convinced! We still have other candidates to interview but you know which one I am rooting for!

 

I'm convinced Dominant women and submissive males can sense each other. Gays have gaydar we have domdar

 

Oh yes. In public she just appears as a bossy wife... but we know the signals and there's no mistaking them when she snaps her fingers, or calls me by my full name.

Once in the pub she was chatting with some of our friends at one end of the bar, I was chatting to another guy I know. Between us were a couple of guys, not the regular crowd and they had been listening to my wife complain (in a nice way) to the owner about something and generally being bossy. One of the non-regulars said something about "wouldn't like to have that at home", or something similar. "That's my wife", said I.

A

 

Is she the best candidate? In your very unbiased opinion

 

Absolutely.

 

If I remember correctly, all I said was a quiet, "that's my wife" and they settled down with a very apologetic look and a sorry mate

 

We are fairly new to this dynamic. I’ll try to keep this story short. My wife and I where out with her coworkers when a woman started chatting with our group, mind you, she was a complete stranger. She looked at my wife and I and said ”she in charge isn’t she?” To which I said “ she owns my ass!” Then I explained, I firmly believe my wife saved my life. In January I was in the hospital, and very sick. My wife questioned everything the Drs and nurses were doing or not doing as it turned out. Any way she was an awesome advocate for me while I was sedated and more than likely saved me. So I am forever in her debt! So yes, she owns my ass and apparently it shows

 

She was the best candidate and we have hired her. It shall be interesting.

 

Bravo, lucky submissive pets you have.

 

How about this?

https://at.tumblr.com/sanaslave/704907512689967104/e3z3klndw1oq

 

Amen brother, having an educated advocate upon enter a hospital these days could be life threatening, mistakes will be made, do not trust protocols that do more harm then good, your the judge not them.

 

absolutely! They acted like I should be dead! I could post more, but this isn’t the place to get political. I’m alive and forever grateful to my wife!

 

That’s exactly how my it always works out when my Goddess and I find ourselves in those situations.

 

Awesome!

 

Cool fantasy.

 

we've not long moved house & my voting card had arrived, but hers hadn't. she mentioned it casually to her parents when they were over for lunch:

Me: (tongue in cheek) maybe they just send out one card to the head of household now?

Her: (quick as a flash) why would they address it to you then?


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