Female Led relationship Sheffield, UK

Good luck finding a match. It may help if you provide more information on your profile page, about your desires, interests, and how you see your female led relationship developing. Females who are dominant or at least receptive to a leading role, are not common and you may need to give them more so they can see your value.

 

I have said something similar to this before but seeing as you are new on here and possibly a fellow Dee-dar you may be a foreigner for all I know... (don't ask... if you don't know it doesn't matter)...(and no the comment is not at all racist Dee-dars can be any race ..and if you don't understand I don't actually care..

I would suggest that instead of looking for a FLR you look for a female acqaintance that may become a friend and eventually a potential partner..... just like the rest of the world thinks they do... and lets not get into the reality of that.

Someone who with as in the case of vanilla relationships you have sufficient common interests and compatability in sufficient areas including the bedroom ,as in all other aspects, to form a potentially lasting relationship based on the things that really matter ...and are often overlooked

Only then you would have had the opportunity to work out out how you might best introduce them into the concept of the two of you being in an FLR what it would for them and the advantages to them of being in such a relationship with you. There are subtle ways to do this and will probably yield a greater probability of success than a direct approach. much I think has been written on doing that well elsewhere

Make no mistake this would probably take some time and effort..... and be worth it all.. if it does not work out then she was not the woman for you.. move on and try again.

You would potentially I believe have a far greater probability of entering into a desireable mutually caring long term enduring relationship that may also develop into a FLR.

Whether or not you wish to consider including male chastity as a game or lifestyle choice should again be a mutual decision based on what your then partner would gain from that. addition to the mix.

Whatever you choose to do with this advice I wish you luck.

 

Perfect suggestions @maid_carrie

 

meet ups and munches are great places to meet fellow kinksters and is reall what they are all about...nothing wrong with them I have been to plenty.

What I was suggesting to you Buyaoddanxin was to look in all the usual / vanilla places as wellif not instead..
Relationship first then kink.... I believe will generally work better in the long term.

 

Is there much of a Kink scene in South Yorkshire? Everything seems to be London or Manchester?

 

there are couple mentioned on Fet one on dec 1st at the rutland on brown street
and a couple of others
]not sure what happened to sheffield munch

never been to any of those

then there is always la chambre every friday night I think..single guys payextra

and been a long time since I went there... i was working .. its a swingers club but fetish on fridays

leeds manchester & chesterfield has one
nottingham has a few one is weekly

Birmingham-Bizarre-Bazaar every month can be a day and evening thing stalls presentations night club etc

 

Fine .....then don't