Lucy said (above) that if it was only viewable to females, then nobody would know it was there. It would be ideal for your wife if it could be "seen" by everyone without us being able to read it. Like if we clicked to view, it would give us the same message we get if we try to reply... My guess is that the software template doesn't allow for that. Maybe your wife should just join in secret so you won't know what she is asking about. Maybe she already did. It's already a nearly dead forum. Imagine how little traffic it would get if you had to ask to even know it was there.