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    Lucy said (above) that if it was only viewable to females, then nobody would know it was there. It would be ideal for your wife if it could be "seen" by everyone without us being able to read it. Like if we clicked to view, it would give us the same message we get if we try to reply... My guess is that the software template doesn't allow for that. Maybe your wife should just join in secret so you won't know what she is asking about. Maybe she already did. It's already a nearly dead forum. Imagine how little traffic it would get if you had to ask to even know it was there.
     
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    I know nothing about coding, but I have been on plenty of sites where the title is in plain site. If you click on it, it says you do not have access. Seems that wouldn’t be a difficult task. To say it wouldn’t be able to be seen at all is just silly.

    My wife is a member. She sees no real need to participate here. She already is on her computer more than she would like. She is teaching online.
     
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    Lucy is also not a coder. It clearly could be done fairly easily by someone familiar with the code.... But is the code open source? If not, she has to convince whoever owns the code to make the change just for her site? What's in it for them? It's not as simple as "I saw it done somewhere else, so just do it". There is always legal or financial obstacles to such things. And would it add more than just your wife to the membership? Maybe. But enough to make it worth her while?

    Maybe you could ask her permission to organize, manage, and finance the changes, and you can make it happen?
     
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    It is very obvious that you do not have a clue about it either. Cost or legality is not the issue, ability is. I was just saying that my wife would be more inclined to participate if there was a female only section, period. It has not been stated by Lucy that it cannot be done, just that she sees no value in it.
     
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    #30 tecolote, Mar 18, 2021
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    LOL. Imagine thinking that nobody owns the software, and that you can just magically alter it without paying someone something.
     
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    Why would she be much more likely to join it if she can't see what's being said?
     
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    Perhaps she could reach out directly to women she see's posting in a thread to as a private question via PM?
     
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    Again, she has joined. Just doesn’t come on here because she would prefer to talk to the females only, where males could not see it. Potentially.

    How is that difficult to understand? Are you just unable to grasp the concept of a forum that is visible, but only verified females have access to even view let alone comment on the content.

    My wife is standing next to me and is also confused at the lack of understanding on something so simple.
     
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    I understand you point, but I disagree with it.

    If she would like to have a private conversation with female members she can send them a message.
     
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    I imagine that the issue is about her husband being able to see her discuss potentially secret plans that shouldn't be shared with him. She doesn't want to talk to a bunch of women individually. She wants a forum discussion, but not where her husband would be able to see it because it would ruin her plans. Even if she had a name that he didn't know, just being able to read about her plans, he would be able to identify her plan as soon as she started enacting it.

    Or maybe she is just uncomfortable being on display to men. Either way, I can see the desire for it to be unreadable for him or other men.
     
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    @tecolote has framed it perfectly. @L-u-c-y, it is obviously your right to run this site as you wish.
     
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    Thank you.
     
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    I concur. Ms. Lucy has absolute authority.
     
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    I was actually surprised that we could read the content. That however is a bonus for me, a look inside so to speak.
     
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    That was the point, to give males an insight into the way women think.

    There had been women only threads before, but males always end up butting in.
     
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    There is a lot of irony in that statement.
     
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    It's not a chastity site, but there is an FLR site called She Makes the Rules that does verification and has a women-only access sub-forum. It also has a sub-forum similar to this one, where only women and can post and respond, but men have read-only status.

    SMTR does have that, but it has to be heavily moderated. People see a thread scroll up and reply, either because they didn't pay attention to the fact that it was in the only-women-respond sub-forum or because they didn't care.

    I'm unsure if there was an automatic way to allow men to start a topic in the sub-forum but not reply to it. The only other work-around I could think of is if:

    • the men submit their writing to the moderators
    • the moderators post for them
    • the men subscribe to get notifications to the topic that was started for them
    Either way, it involves a lot of babysitting on the part of the moderators.
     
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    For me, being able to read what our mistresses are going through with us and their challenges that they encounter helps me to understand myself and I better understand the perception that we project us males.

    I really like the fact that we can't step in and argue about anything to stimulate our egos and distract from serious conversation between them.

    We just have to read, integrate the information and use it to improve our behavior.

    I encourage you dear mistresses to continue your discussions, they do us a lot of good.
     
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    I personally think that would be the best idea.
     
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