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  1. sylvana chastity
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    Every now and then I stumble into a thread, read a bit of it and just when I think about answering I see: "(You have insufficient privileges to reply here.)".
    I am a member long enough to have witnessed skirmish, insults, very bad behaviour and all the things that might have led to this - still it feels odd being an (very) adult member of society, being able to elect, living in a country where the freedom of speech is guaranteed and being the (very proud) owner of a brain of my own.
    Usually this brain would now produce sentences like: "ok, so it's not your fault that they can't gather around your feet anymore, listening to the unfailing abundance of wisdom" - but stillllllllllllllllll...
    Isn't there any other way?
    And just being curious: am i the only one who feels a bit disturbed?
     
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    Are you referring to the female only forum?
     
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    might be - I didn't notice that maybe
    stillllll....
     
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    Still what? The entire purpose of the subforum is to limit the responses to verified females.

    I've seen a thread or two that I wanted to respond to if only to provide a link to another thread that had responses from other verified females, but I realized that's a fairly rare instance and just politely messaged someone with a link.
     
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    I had a similar feeling to the one you describe when I first saw that as I think I’m the longest registered active member right now.

    Thankfully I remembered about the women only forums and while I wasn’t thrilled I at least understood what was going on and could accept it.

    Change is always hard. And Lucy and I have gone around on it a few times. We may not like some of the changes but others do. So it’s a hard job she has deciding on what to do.

    Personally as long as I see most of the changes as good for the site I’m able to accept them.

    Seeing the site loved and cared for also helps a great deal. And honestly while there’s an edge to reply to a thread, and a frustration that we’re locked out, it’s no biggie.

    At the end of the day what matters is we have a nice place to come to with limited to no drama. The few problems that come up are resolved quickly and fairly.

    So sure I miss the “good old days” and many of the folks. But I’m glad Lucy and her team are doing a good job. No make that a real good job.
     
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    If we are talking about the forum for female key holders, I think it is a great idea. I enjoy reading it because it is free of any influence from the male members.
     
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    There is only one forum where comments are restricted, and that is the verified women area. That cane about as a result of a particular event last year.

    Our women are entitled to a space of their own. We should feel happy to even see it.
     
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    Grow up. Personally, I think that forum should be invisible to mere males.
     
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    Why? What topic is there that is so sensitive that women wouldn't want to discuss in a place that men can see?

    On the contrary, I think the forum should be even more accessible and visible to non-members. If I were ever to introduce a woman to chastity, there are two threads by Goddess Gaia in that section that I would want her to read and it would be even more helpful if the woman didn't have to register to do so.
     
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    How do you know there isn’t such a forum? o_O
     
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    As verified women on this site, they don’t need any specific topic, or even a reason, to have a completely private space. They would be fully entitled to one if for no other reason than just wanting to have it.

    In fact, I humbly suggest that Mistress @L-u-c-y establish such a forum if she hasn’t already.
     
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    I understand what your saying @sylvana chastity Ive also caught myself not having enough privilege to respond but I look at it differently. Their are many many different post and threads here at the mansion. If these Ladies want to have their private thread that’s OK it’s not going to make any difference in my life if I post on it or Not Everyone needs a little privacy.
     
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    Just imagine the thread is one where women have only asked for the opinions of other females, and specifically requested that males not reply.

    That has been tried before and men always reply.

    Also it is good to read genuine replies from women that we know are not men with some stolen photos.
     
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    To be honest: I didn't realize, that it might allways only have happened in the women-sections - for me it was more like: "oh no, not again..."
    So: thanks for opening that eye, but then there now is some sadness that such is mandatory!
     
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    It doesn't seem sad to me, I think it's encouraging more women to join the site and take an interest in chastity, and that can only be a good thing : )
     
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    I think that it is great that they have their own place to figure out things with other females. I also feel that it is a privilege and that we are lucky that we can see it at all.
     
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    Hello all,
    I’m very new here, to CM. I’ve been a submissive all my life and into chastity and serving females before I ever serve myself. I must be honest and say (sometimes I falter) I am only a male after all!
    If I may offer my opinion...Isn’t chastity all about the holder, our Madame...Mistress...Goddess of whatever? If we can agree that YES it is, then there shouldn’t be any issue with ladies having their own everything! Blocking ALL access to males! Yet, we males can read and access this information, but are told that our input is NOT welcome.
    I’m proudly owned by Madame “E”! She is the one I put on a pedestal, she has been a savior to me!! Seriously! I’m all for ladies having there exclusive EVERYTHING if that is what they wish. YET, we males are allowed the privilege of reading their thoughts and ideas! Isn’t that a GIFT to us males?? We should THANK THEM for allowing us this privilege!
    “l” THANK YOU LADIES!!
     
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    It's very nice of the ladies to at least allow us to view their private section! I suppose it's a bit like being stood in the room whilst your wife/Keyholder has a discussion with a lady friend, maybe about your own short comings, of which there are probably many, or maybe about things far more important than you! The difference is at home we may dare to interrupt or offer our unasked for opinion! On CM this is not possible we, quite rightly, cannot reply!!! Thanks for letting us "look but not touch".
     
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    A very good way of looking at it : )
     
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    Big fan here for the Female only section. Plus for me, it also helps to cement the air of Female Leadership that chastity and keyholding rely upon to be a genuine reality.
     
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    Am I the only one to see the irony here? Men frustrated because they are locked out. On. A. Chastity. Site. o_O:lockkey:
     
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    You are sooo right! Quite the irony. I would think being locked out would be our natural mindset!
    I think women are slowly rising up, finding more ways to solidify their power over males. They are taking us down...one tiny cage by another tiny cage!
     
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    good point! :D
     
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    We want to be locked IN, not OUT! :p
     
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    Hey @Chaste J. ,

    I don't know about you, but I would not dare to interrupt. :oops::eek: I think women need other
    women to share with. It is great to be able to see true interaction of our beautiful women.
    Hey, they have to deal with us, they need a break sometime.:+1:
     
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