Well reading my through every book I can possibly get my hot little hands on. Guess it is the left overs of my english/history degree, that I never quite finished. Either way Since there weren't many books in here I would start a few threads as I finish books. Anyway Just finished this book. It is written by Hardy Haberman, with a forward by Midori. It was actually pretty good, and even had a section on "pervertables" objects in your kitchen that can be used in interesting ways. I am now looking at the cooking utensil section in my grocery store with new eyes that is for sure, and have an urge to get some egg cutters.Was very good on the safety issues something I like since well I worry. and while I have no issue marching into an emergency room announcing the problem my partner probably is not that out going. either way it is definatly a nice beginning book and gives some great ideas for scenes at the end. For those of you fairly familiar with this subject it might offer some new ideas, but you might find it a bit useless. but I liked that he explains the anatomy and possible risks and how to handle them if they do arise. And what parts you need to be very careful of and how to tell if there is an issue that might require a trip to the doctor. that was a main worry of mine when i began looking into the subject of CBT. I got it from amazon fairly cheaply, so it wasn't a huge investment . So off to my next book.