Failure to Obey

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    Take away the FLR for a while and he should be back begging your forgiveness, IMHO!
     
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    Excellent advice
     
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    It was interesting reading what you all thought what punishments would work but for me they just were kinks if my wife wants me to improve it is the complete vanilla stuff that works.

    No mobile, no computer, no tv, no social life, take away all access to money so he has to ask for every last penny, if he likes a beer, only water, if he likes a long hot shower only cold water and a bar of really cheap soap, if he like designer underwear make him wear supermarket or none. Punish him with the everyday don't let any punishment be about fulfilling kink. Then you are leading the relationship.
     
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    Totally agree wit this! Take us all away and play plain old vanilla for a week, and he will be crawling back to you begging! This is what my madam did to me! And it works!
     
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    See for me that kills the vibe of my dominance and he just continues settling back into porn and masterbating, fantasy and getting his self esteem from ppl on discord etc even if through simple attention from kinks (eg receptive/provocative talk typically to online transwomen trying to flex dominance by calling them slut's,whores,good girls etc knowing that's instant bait for them). Tbh incel behaviour in terms of false ideas of sex,women,healthy habits and things to be proud of and set goals on.

    Sex denial doesn't seem to work well for me, at least not for training out really shit bad habits from his online sexual chat history. He sees denial from me as the same as not being sexted by online involvees.....he still justifies the label of dating trans women in online forums as being the same as a relationship with me as his goddess in a real life female led relationship.
    Tbh he lost touch of reality when single irl and I'm fucking struggling to make him stay present and mindful when I'm not physically or dominantly present.....kills me self confidence inside and motivation to work hard training him.

    Feel like a bit of a shit goddess atm like his responsibility and attitude to his enslavement is intrinsically linked to my teaching rather than his wanting to learn, commit and accept my lead over his ego.

    Big Dom drop with this over the span of his training. Can't make the horse drink.
     
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    Keep the cage on him, but otherwise no sex, no kink, etc. Lock and forget as punishment?

    Honestly just throwing an idea out there that might work for your situation.
     
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