For a year off and on my pet and I have had an FLR and while the sex/kink part of it is great FINALLY. There's an issue, he is impossible to train, and will blantantly ignore my rules and orders on about a daily basis. We have tried discussing it, punishment for it ( spanking and once I had him write lines) it doesn't sems to be making him change, I feel discouraged and frustrated which doesn't seem like a way a mostly fun kink should be and definitely doesn't inspire me to be a good Mistress. What should I do? There's times when .I just want to give up trying because it seems hopeless.